Guys its just a high libido, don't complicate your life

I really recommend Freud's "Beyond the pleasure principle" and "Civilization and its Discontents". Both fairly easy reads, not too long.

A lot of people hate Freud, but the man basically is the father of psychology as we know it. People who speak the truth are many times ridiculed for saying it, and I think most religious folk do that with Freud bc they see themselves in his theories and can't stand it.

He basically goes through the various levels of instinct formation over time, and shows how neurotics have sexual problems bc of an out of control libido as a result of improper ties to Father/mother. Many times its the defective marriage that's blamed, be that as it may progress can only be made through persistent efforts to grow out of the childish habits not grown out of as we came up.