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Guys This thing(pied) is real. Omg.

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by SoftwareEngineer, Aug 2, 2019.

  1. ItsInTheBag

    ItsInTheBag Fapstronaut

    It will happen. In the beginning, it took me two months. Boy, was I frustrated or what?
     
  2. SoftwareEngineer

    SoftwareEngineer Fapstronaut

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    Yup. Man I am still in the process
     
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  3. quit@porn

    quit@porn Fapstronaut

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    me too
     
  4. BumbleTheBee

    BumbleTheBee Fapstronaut

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    I've noticed that if you schedule your sleep, all your troubles with sleep will vanish. Try going to bed and wake up at particular time. It will be difficult for first 2 days, but by third day your body will adjust your natural clock. By day 7, your sleep problems will start vanishing. Your time line may vary a little bit
     
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  5. SoftwareEngineer

    SoftwareEngineer Fapstronaut

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    Yes noticed same.
     
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  6. SoftwareEngineer

    SoftwareEngineer Fapstronaut

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    Yes sir hopefully. I would also like to know ur experience. If you can share link or something.
     
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  7. quit@porn

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    I have abstained from porn for almost 12 days now..and yes I am observing little improvement. one thing I noticed that whenever I am bored or feels lonely then there is more urg to PMO there were some tough times actually I tried to visit also some sites but closed within seconds and browsed again nofap.. . . So long so better.. . ..

    And I am observing that the things with which I lost the erection appeal are now a days let me have erections.. . . Our mind is awesome it start adjusting. . .. . . When I used to watch more porn it demanded more always in porn.. . Now with supply of porn closed .. . . It's getting used to fantasy.. . . If am feeling confident and I will set target for giving up fapping( low initially of only week altho this is also big task right now)
     
  8. quit@porn

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    Lol.. . Yes indeed
     
  9. SoftwareEngineer

    SoftwareEngineer Fapstronaut

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    Guys, I am on 21 day streak. I am going to have sex in this week, just thinking this putting so much burden on me and libido is also vanishing due to this fear. (T_T)
     
  10. ItsInTheBag

    ItsInTheBag Fapstronaut

    What's the rush?
     
  11. SoftwareEngineer

    SoftwareEngineer Fapstronaut

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    Anyways my girl is coming to meet me.
     
  12. ItsInTheBag

    ItsInTheBag Fapstronaut

    Ah, I see. Does she know about your recovery? (I'm not advising you to tell her, or not tell her. It's just that if she knows, she may be sympathetic to your situation and agree to give you some leeway :), if you feel you could use some!)
     
  13. SoftwareEngineer

    SoftwareEngineer Fapstronaut

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    She don't know. Because of previous failed attempts she think I am little shy to go down there(I want to keep it that way only)
    She love me blindly I don't know how she will react to porn and this shit so... Also we have agreed to get married.

    So my plan to reduce anxiety is: enjoy the foreplay don't even think about erection and hope for the best. :)

    And thank you bro for asking means alot in this situation.
     
    Last edited: Sep 14, 2019
  14. ItsInTheBag

    ItsInTheBag Fapstronaut

    Wish you good luck, buddy! Seems like a very serious relationship, all the best.
     
  15. SoftwareEngineer

    SoftwareEngineer Fapstronaut

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    Update: PIED cured.
    First time had sex, with my girl.
    After about 30 day current streak .. (Remember: I am one streak of over 100+ days if you ignore 3-4 MO which I did mostly due to blue balls pain. Also I am trying nofap from 8 months )

    After 15 failed attempts.(Just imagine the anxiety and sleep less nights when this happens)

    Here's how it happened (I am sharing this as information to who so concerned.

    I am with my gf from last 10 days.
    Day 1 to Day 5: After foreplay i Feel no movement in there.

    Day 6: my girl started rubbing my dick, As usual nothing happens I pulled her off then it ended.

    Day 7: She is very attracted to it even though its flaccid and not responding to her. She tries again and again. She starts sucking it. Wow.. it become half erect.
    (Now my confidence it little up, n I am more happy)
    Day 8: She starts sucking it. Now it's fully erect she plays with it for about 30 mins, full erection during this time.

    Day 9: After 10 mins of her playing I decided to go for it, and this worked, it lasted about 20 mins.

    Even though I am looking forward to the development, will update here.

    Guys this wouldn't have been possible without you and this forum .
    I thank all of you. :)
     
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