Guys who are silent, shy and can't talk, how do you rizz?

Level up in value, improve all aspects of life for God, and myself. I've stopped paying so much attention to women despite my desire for a relationship. Focus in your goals, and you'll naturally be able to talk to people and attract them to you. "Rizzing" someone up is a waste of time if that person doesn't fit into your life or shares the same vision as you
 
fulfillingpotential_66 said:
You don't really have to have 'rizz'. Maybe for a short term hookup, being smooth would help. But just by being around you women can tell if you're a good, attractive guy to them by how you act, how you look, how you dress. It should just come naturally.

If you have to 'rizz' and convince someone to like you then you are coming from a place of insecurity, trying to impress them rarely works out in the end because you are putting them on a pedestal and putting yourself down. You feel you have to impress them otherwise they won't like you instead of just being yourself. It's much better to be yourself and someone will like you for you.

My past relationships have all come from friendships first. Just spending a lot of time together etc, it comes naturally
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Sometimes women like me and shows initial interest. But I say some dumb shit and they go cold
 
Олександр said:
I don’t know, I get a thrill from silence, instead of talking to useless trash, you become stronger due to control over your inner world)
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yeah, but being silent because it's your choice, it's fine, but if it's because you are shy or lack the confidence to express your thoughts and ideas, it's another issue. If a person decides to become more extroverted, then it's like learning how to dance, you need to practice frequently. As much as possible practice social skills. In a party, lunch or dinner table, work event, family reunion, restaurant, meeting with friends etc... And it's not just about the social interaction, but also how you feel about these interactions and conquer anxiety and fears. These are just normal social skills, Once you are comfortable with them, then you should think about dating. But once you realize that you are happy and socially comfortable, you won't have any issues naturally meeting girls.
 
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