I started back on this forum a couple months ago. I talked with several guys about their story and what brought them to nofap. I noticed that most identify as straight, but have dealt with having sexual encounters with men. This isn’t a post about labels. I talked with someone who was not on the forum and has a girlfriend. He says he’s straight, and wants to be in a heterosexual marriage and have a family. He’s in his mid 30s, and has had several ongoing sexual relationships with men, since he was in his early 20s. I know he’s conflicted about it since he has a girlfriend who doesn’t know he has sex with men. I use this example so I don’t directly relate someone’s story from the forum. I am making this post because I am surprised it’s so common for guys who are straight to meet up with other guys for sex. To be clear, these aren’t one time occurrences, or “I was drunk and it just happened once 10 years ago”. This is something people actively seek out with some regularity. So much of the forum talks about porn, but not about sexual behavior. I think this is a big issue for a few reasons: Shame and secrecy. Habit of seeking sex Emotional toll of identifying as straight but having same sex encounters. Anyone have thoughts on this?