Had sex

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Teejmaster, Oct 30, 2017.

  1. Teejmaster

    Teejmaster Fapstronaut

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    I had sex earlier today and am on day 35 of No PMO. I guess I lost my orgasm streak. I feel 100% great though. I lasted longer and felt the best erection I've felt in months. Not feeling a need to PM. Is this normal? Everyone said I might feel the need to PM after sex, trying to gather opinions
     
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  2. James232

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    I've noticed sometimes even with relapsing PMO that I'll feel better for a few days. This could have something to do with the surge of 'feel good' neurotransmitters in the brain but I honestly have no idea. Just know that, at least in my experience, it's a slippery slope. Just as an example if I allow this to lead to another relapse then that good feeling will be either less, or it will be gone. Then it keeps going down from there into that feeling we all know and despise.

    It's probably less so with sex than PMO but the idea is the same. Don't think this makes you somehow bulletproof to the feelings of relapse. You should try tantric sex. It's something I plan to experiment with in the future myself. Orgasm without ejaculation. The idea behind it is that by retaining your 'seed' you keep a lot of your strength. Apparently you can have full body orgasms for minutes at a time, repeatedly once you get good at it.
     
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  3. jorg78

    jorg78 Fapstronaut

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    Sex is natural, masturbation and PMO is not.

    For me, the point with NoFap is to just have sex.
     
  4. Sunz

    Sunz New Fapstronaut

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    As your brain rewires itself u won't feel the need to watch pixels in a screen to bust a nut.
     
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  5. James232

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    Sex still has a similar effect on your brain chemistry though. Not nearly as bad as PMO, but sex addiction is a thing for the same reasons PMO addiction is a thing. The pathways in your brain don't care which you're doing while you're recovering, they're still trying to rewire and reconnect. They're still fragile and haven't had time to strengthen and cement.
     
  6. STAR DUST

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    NO THE HELL WITH PMO, GO HIT THAT AGAIN, BUT KAREZZA THIS TIME, AND THE NEXT AND THENEXT AND THEN BUST!
     
  7. Amphibian

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    I like everything I read in this thread.

    Especially the "full body orgasms for minutes at a time..." Gotta look into that... (researching for a friend)
     
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  8. OheyApple

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    How did you manage to last longer? I've been on no pmo streaks for weeks and i nut really quickly first time around during sex
     
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  9. jorg78

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    Reverse kegels or numbing spray would be the best bet.
     
  10. seaguy44

    seaguy44 Moderator Assistant

    Numbing spray really works?
     
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  11. DerNeuMann

    DerNeuMann Fapstronaut

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    Research shows that the body does not treat orgasm from sex the same as it treats orgasm from masturbation. You will probably get chaser effect horniness in a day or two. I just tell myself that's what nofap studs should be feeling. It's not a call to jack off but the feeling of manliness. Enjoy it and don't free Willy or look at porn.
     
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  12. jorg78

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    Everytime I use it, it works. But there is some numbing sprays out there, so read some reviews if you can
     

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