100%. I just started listening to this podcast, and the first episode they attempt to define 'addiction'. Some quotes: "Addiction's best friend is denial" Definition of addiction by SO: "You're doing something that is negatively affecting your life and those around you" It doesn't really matter what we call it; the point is it's hurting you and your relationship. Porn is just the tip of the iceberg. How is he treating you otherwise? How is he contributing to the relationship? Is he building intimacy positively, or is he passive about it?