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Halloween urges. Triggers?

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by samnf1990, Oct 31, 2017.

  1. Oct 31, 2017 #1
    samnf1990

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    Today being halloween, specific urges for themed content are bothering me. My wife has never dressed up specifically for me or to be sexy for halloween, and in the past, when dressed as a vampire, insisted on removing her outfit and make up before we got intimate. My pmo-hungry side is telling me that this will never happen for me and that I should search for porn like this. I do not want to go back to pmo, but Im unsure how (or whether) to approach introducing these things into my sex life. I want my wife to dress up for me, to learn to (yes, definite trigger ahead)...



    ...deepthroat me and to do anal every once in a while. She has already agreed to let me cum on her face.

    I no longer want to use P to explore sides of my sexuality I worry my wife will be put off by. On the other hand I do not want to escalate my sex life in the way porn tastes can escalate, and find I can only enjoy more kinky or extreme sex.

    Any advice on how to approach requesting the above? Or does that stuff only belong in p? Should i seek to tame my desires to exclusively vanilla sex?
     
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  2. Nov 1, 2017 #2
    Rude Dude Hector

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    (trigger words in post) At the end of the day you are only going to find out if she wants to do that stuff if you ask her.
    You can't really make her do stuff like deepthroating unless you discuss it with her. porn makes us see stuff like anal and blowjobs as a thing every women should be doing in bed but thats just really not the case. When i got with my partner i expected a blowjob like it was something every woman should be doing to their man but again thats what porn made me think.

    But that being said i don't think you should seek to tame your desires but instead just to discuss these more kinky parts of sex and you will get either a yes or no answer and move on. If she has agreed to let you cum on her face i assume shes already giving you blowjobs so getting to the next kinky level just seems like a simple question. If you are close to your partner and have been together for a long time these questions shouldn't scare her away or make her think you are weird.
     
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