HARD TO TALK TO HER AND ASK HER OUT.

Hova is right, you should change your view to getting excited/feel good for the actions that you take not the results that you get

Because theres no way to tell how shes going to react and the only thing in your control is the fact that you asked her out in the first place

Action > Results

 

If you keep this up, you might just open up another door and find me kissing her this time. Oh this should be a learning experience so let me tell you how I'd do it. I'll make a dialogue.

-At kids camp
Noland: I sure do hate kids

Sarah: What?!

Noland: I said I love kids, anyways we should kiss.

Sarah: W-
*Interrupted*

Noland: Too soon? Not in front of the kids? Aight

Sarah: No, it's jus-

Noland leans in for the kiss

*Joe ace walks in*
*Doesnt turn super Saiyan again*
*Show gets canceled*

If you don't want this to come true, stop trying to play it safe. If she's going to reject you, she'll reject you no matter how you do it. Go in head first and take it slow after. I wouldn't recommend everyone to go in head first, but I feel as if you need to or you're going to back out.

HEAD FIRST.

 

@joe Ace ... I want you to read this and re-read it over and over:

Fear of rejection is far worse than actually getting rejected.

Every guy in this thread should back me up on this. Every one of us has been nervous to talk to a woman we're attracted to. But I f***ing guarantee you ... if you just take the leap and go talk to her, you'll feel amazing for facing your fears, even if it doesn't go well. You will discover that it isn't nearly as bad as you're making it out to be.

Watch this. Chappelle talks about how his first experience bombing on stage is exactly what launched him into being 'fearless':

 

100% agree.

If you don't take the chance someone else will.

 

That has to suck, but I'm not good with girls either cause I don't feel good enough, wanted etc.. so I understand what you're coming from and I'll tell you what my friends told me. There will be someone just right for you and there's someone for everyone.

 

I'm excited. I better here from you in 12 hours.

 

Hope one day you have confidence

 

Umm joe seems like a guy who gets things done, and he really like this girl. I hope she likes him back. Keep up the nofap maybe that will increase your attractiveness that's what I experienced it's more enjoyable to talk to girl when you are confident and has a long nofap streak, and that's one reason I'm going on nofap to build better relationships.

 

Confidence of man is equals to his social stance times muscularity times nofap^2

 

How many more hours till it's time ?

 

Screw that man, just call her lmao. That's too long for the 'head first' approach.

Just text her and say that you have something you wanna say over the phone and just take it from there. If you're trying to wait 336 hours, then that's taking up too much of your time thinking about her. Just get your answer. Head. First.

 

*Dials number*
Noland: Hey is this the producer to the show "Joe Ace"

Producer: Yeah, what's up?

Noland: Yeah, I play the evil villain in his show.

Producer: So what?

NoLand: You can't have the show without the evil villain and I will leave if this Joe guy doesn't start making moves. And if I leave, this show will be no more.

Producer: Oh please Mr. NoLand sir, don't leave! I have a family!

Noland: Sthu. If Joe Ace doesn't get her number and call her within 2 days, I'm out!

Producer: Joe please make a move! The streets are not for me!

Joe.. Make a move for this mans family. If it's not for yourself, do it for him.

 

For real though, just get her number and get this over with. If she ends up rejecting you, you'll find out that you being scared of her saying no was way worse and way more time consuming than her actually saying no. Unless she's one of those girls who will embarrass you.

My first rejection was kinda like that. Any rejection after that now is quick and to the point. Most guys that you see who gets the girl they're with, have been through countless rejections. It's just the way it is.

If you play it safe, then you'll be trapped in your safe space. Alone.