Hardmode record 94 days and I am not happy about it.

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by bamsebamsebamse, Dec 14, 2019.

  1. bamsebamsebamse

    bamsebamsebamse New Fapstronaut

    Hi, today marks my new hardmode record and I am not happy about it.

    The reason is because it not by choice to go hardmode. I have had girls sleeping over but I cant get it to work.

    Its the same thing happening every time, we start to watch a movie and have foreplay, I get horny and precum in my pants. Then when we are about to start it wont work. I have the feeling like I just came, it feels exhausted and its probably because of the precum that make my brain think I am done.

    The other reason is me knowing I had problems before going into it and fear it will happen again. I have had a understanding girlfriend knowing this and being supportive but it didn't really help to much.

    My first experience was at a party 7 years ago, but it that was a total failure. All my friends was cheering for me thinking I would lose my virginity but no. I understand that his can be a factor for my current problem.

    (Somethings to know about me)

    0 days or 80 days of nofap same thing happens.

    I am 24 and this problem have been with me all my life.

    I have tried both no foreplay and long foreplay.

    When i'm alone and watch porn its all fine, everything works like normal.

    I have tried the blue pill but I am hard for like 3 minutes, my dick goes numb and I dont really feel anything.

    Wet dreams, same thing happens I cant even get hard in my dreams.

    I eat healthy and work out.

    I was hopping that nofap and stop masturbating would help me but to be honest i'm in big doubt now. 20 min ago I was really close to say fuck it and relapse, but you guys made me change my mind and i'm now writing about my problem instead.

    My question is, what would you do if you were in my shoes?

    Sorry for my bad English.
  2. greatchinaski

    greatchinaski Fapstronaut

    Keep going. Have patience. Time heals
  3. parad0x

    parad0x Fapstronaut

    What would I do?

    If this was my problem id stay away from real partners for a while longer. Then start slowly with them again. Kissing cuddling feeling the moment.
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  4. Jacs22

    Jacs22 New Fapstronaut

    Our brains take different times to rewire themselves, some take a few weeks some upto 6-12 months, so be patient and trust the process.
  5. Chasse02

    Chasse02 Fapstronaut

    Honestly, i think the problem is just in your head. Relax. And eventually you will make it. Im sure there is nothing wrong with you, just anxiety.

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