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Has anyone faced issues being in being father?

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Mindful wolf, Mar 9, 2021.

  1. Mindful wolf

    Mindful wolf Fapstronaut

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    Hello all, I've been into PMO & from few years I'm regularly masturbating watching porn. I often do orgasm but do retrograde ejaculation watching porn. I fear now that I'm 27 & I'm about to get married I feel that I don't get erections unless I jerk off & unable to maintain erection for a minute... but main fear is that would I be able to be a father?
    Has anyone after years of daily masturbation was able to be a father?
     
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  2. sali82

    sali82 Fapstronaut

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    Yup that fear was real for me. And still is. I am married and have a baby, but our sex life is non existent. Need to kick the habit so I can have a enriched intimate life with my wife. All I can say is that their is no hiding in a marriage and if you want to have a great married life you should kick this habit for good. Being on this forum is a great start
     
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  3. ElderStatesman

    ElderStatesman Fapstronaut

    You should be okay. Obviously you can get an erection and ejaculate. Getting off porn can likely get you better able for relations with your partner, along with a lot of other benefits.

    I'm curious about your day counter at 500 when you say you're masturbating regularly. For me, it helps keeping mine up to date.
     
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  4. eagle25

    eagle25 Fapstronaut

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    Circa 15 years of regular masturbation including porn before I became a father - didn't cause a problem, however...

    The more you worry about it the more chance of it happening. I only ever had ED once and it was when I knew sex was coming with a new girlfriend and had been looking forward to it for a while.

    Death grip is probably the main issue you have. I used to cum way too fast from sex - now I have the opposite problem.
     
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  5. Being addicted to anything means you are not emotionally mature. Emotionally immature man cannot raise healthy and emotionally mature kid, especially boy. Think about this, otherwise your kid will probably be target to addiction. And its very possible that your kid will sense your weakness, kids are hard to trick even they seem to be naive.
    Seriously, being a father is not only about you but about future of next generation, from this point I would encourage you to seek professional therapy if you are unable to reboot (and grown emotional maturity).
     
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