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Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by etc777, May 22, 2020.

  1. etc777

    etc777 New Fapstronaut

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    hello, basically im 26 years old and for some reasons i almost never had serious relationships in my life ( i mean love relationships).

    theres kinda a reason thought. i had surgeries on my face , for some reasons ; the result is fine but i still think that im not so attractive and well, most guys get some girls at least ,, but me im in shape, im healthy etc but i never get any girls.

    so yeah, basically today i went for a long time without 'fappin'; it feels nice in some sense but i was craving it a lot .

    i almost never had sex in my life ; just one time with a random girl and we didnt even finished . another time a gay guy wanted to do shits with me but i said to back off because im not gay and i was homeless at that time , so i accepted any kind of help even tho he was gay.

    so yeah, it wont change a thing , ill still be alone anyways.

    i admit that im kinda a stalker ; i sometimes go on facebook or any places online i can try to see hot pictures of said women that i discovered anywhere that i found hot ; and i like to do these things in front of these pictures/videos.

    its just because i need an outlet in any ways .

    im sure im not alone im this .
     
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  2. seven zero four

    seven zero four Fapstronaut

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    Bro, women come and go so don't focus on women at all. A lot of the time it ends in a heart broken relationship which leads to depression. What you see in relationships and online is not the same in real life bro most of the time, but nofap for sure gets you women. Going for one day without nofap doesn't make them come to you all of a sudden it takes time. Me, myself I've received many compliments from women saying that I'm attractive but have not gotten laid or anything and for sure it was the masturbation and porn that wasn't getting me laid because my sexual energy was being wasted on something else and on those days where I was on nofap even for a short time I saw a significant change in the way these girls were looking at me different from before nofap. Even then if I do get more looks from women and offers of sex I want to decline it because I don't wanna focus on women because that always doesn't end well and it gives me depression and I've experienced severe depression from past relationships even though everything was the way I wanted it to be. My bro just don't worry about girls. Keep in your mind what you want to achieve. I have five goals that I want to achieve and I know Nofap is a massive step to achieving these goals. The five goals are : 1)Being a better Muslim and getting closer to Allah. 2)Being happy(Nofap makes me soooo happy I can't even explain the joy I get) 3) To be very wealthy(Nofap makes you not waste your energy on porn and instead you use it for working hard. 4)To get good grades 5)To get the body I have always wanted( Nofap increases testosterone by soo much) Hope this helps, From your brother in humanity :)
     
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  3. Metis07

    Metis07 Fapstronaut

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    Also delete all social media, don’t use them as a P-sub, go for Nofap hard mode.

    There were and will be a lot of people who won’t have sex in their life at all (that doesn’t mean that you won’t) and that doesn’t mean that their life is a waste of time, that’s not the criteria.
    Women/sex don’t equal happiness and success, it can just be regarded as a bonus to your life (sometimes even a burden, lol)
     

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