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Have others cured dead dick?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Want_to_get_better, Dec 21, 2019.

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  1. Want_to_get_better

    Want_to_get_better Fapstronaut

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    I have a dead dick basically. Even when I would masturbate to porn I would many times not have a full erection. I feel like I taught myself to not need an erection which is obviously bad. I have zero urges besides just habit to look at porn. But I've also got zero feeling in my dick at all. I tried to touching myself today without thinking about women, porn, but just focusing on how it felt in my body. Still nothing. No erection at all. I believe I understand the reason why porn is bad for me and can stay away from it but when will I lose the dead dick? I feel like my body will never work again :-(

    I read all over this community people who are struggling to stop themselves from going back to porn. I honestly don't think that is my problem. At least not yet. I wonder if maybe I wasn't addicted to porn as much as I taught myself bad habits that have messed up my brain to dick chemical signals and that is my real problem.

    Has anyone else been on a similar path? Does this path work for my condition? I ask this understanding that I don't want to do porn anymore either way. I'm trying to figure out if this path is one that has a chance of success or if I did to try medical ones and pills to see if I can get my body sending the right signals to my dick again or if I have a blockage or something thats keeping blood from flowing down there. I know that you guys aren't doctors but it would help to connect with others who have taken the same path that I'm on.

    Thanks for being here for the people like me that are trying to go through our sexual healing and being willing to share your experiences.
     
  2. Want_to_get_better

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    Just to be clear. I don't just have ED with sex I have it period. I get no movement. No morning wood in a VERY long time. No hardon when I see a sexy girl. I think thoughts that you would think would create an erection when I see a sexy girl but nothing in the actual movement department. I feel like most on here have more of a problem with it popping up and not having anything to do with it. I am at a point that it popping up would be a major improvement for me :-(
     
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  3. Psalm27:1my light

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    It’s called flat lining. Very common when you stop pmo.
     
  4. blademaster87

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    Seems like you have some psychological issues going on. You seem too anxious about it. Maybe you just don't feel like masturbating? I'd say don't sweat it, I think the desensibilization is common for recovering PMO adicts. Stay on your journey.
     
  5. If you have not started a reboot already: classic ED due to porn and excessive masturbation. You reached complete sexual exhaustion: you need to start nofap ASAp.

    If you are in a reboot: classic flatline. Your neural pathways are rebuilding. Your hormone levels are rebooting. It can last a few days, a few weeks or a few months. It comes and goes. Just embrace it: it's easier to abstain when you don't battle with urges.
     
  6. clapas

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    You are not abstaining from PMO. If I was in your situation, I would take this seriously. Stop it completely.
     
  7. Want_to_get_better

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    Thank you all. It's hard to tell if what I'm seeing is consistent with others. The sexual exhaustion makes total sense to me. I've over stimulated my body/mind and wore out everything. Thank you all.
     
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  8. Anonymous86

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    You may have the same exact thing as me. Is your dick shrunken like in a constant acorn/cashew shape, shriveled and shrunken small? Because that's what I have. I lost my libido almost overnight after fapping to porn.
     
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  9. Same here. Sexyal exhaustion. Fried neurons.
     
  10. Anonymous86

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    Exactly the same thing happened to you?! Wow, good to know (like in terms of being able to relate I mean).
     
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  11. Want_to_get_better

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    It isn’t always small and shrunken but man times it sucks up inside like it’s cold when it’s not. Other days it’s more of a hang but not often. I’ve always been more of a grower but it’s shrunk up over time. I’m 52 so I have convinced myself that it is age but now I know it’s due to fapping.
     
  12. Want_to_get_better

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    Is this a situation that went away for you? I’m on day 20 with no signs of life but also no urges besides habits which I have been able to change up.
     
  13. Yea it went away. But I have delayed ejaculation now (when having real sex) but I believe it's due to a psychological reason in my case.

    After 20 days your situation with no urges looks more like flatline (normal).
     
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  14. AllGoodThings2

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  15. heres something off topic, don't do it, i have gotten past 2 months one time, wanted to just M. but it did not feel good like i thought it would, not even a little bit, i wish i would not have done that, it created a down word cycle i did never watch porn again, but other stuff, now i am going for 90 days again, not 70 or 80 days
     
  16. Want_to_get_better

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    Did the downward spiral mean you started back on porn once you M? Or is it that you felt bad and thought you failed? I wonder reading threads on here if people become ashamed of themselves for doing a normal M activity because they connect it with PMO. I am planning to go 90 days without any M at all but I hope to be able to M at some point when I have no other sexual options. I think having sexual relief is an important part of life. My problem is that I used porn daily and M'd a couple times a day from it. That is what I know is bad. My body told me that by shutting down on me.
     
  17. Want_to_get_better

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    Thank you so much!
     
  18. carch

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    I’m on day 15 and have had 0 libido and dead dick. I’m getting concerned that it wasn’t pmo because I was easily able to cut out porn and m.
     
  19. Want_to_get_better

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    I'm in the same boat at day 26. Let's get to day 90 together and see where we are. Hopefully we both get better.
     
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  20. Psalm27:1my light

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    It took my husband about 4 months. January will be a year, not only does he have great erections now, his dick is so much softer to touch, way bigger, and actually looks good. His voice is deeper, he’s grown way more hair, and he looks more masculine. If I hadn’t seen it for myself, I don’t know that I would believe all the drastic changes. He already had de when we married 27 years ago, I just thought that’s how he was. Then 5 years ago pied. That’s all gone. Just stay clean! Give it time.
     

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