At what point or have you ever caved to just M without P during your recovery? Did you tell your SO? Did you feel like it was a setback? Have you lied about it?
I know is very common to relapse. I know some don’t see M as a relapse. I do though. After all the research it is not something We want in our relationship. But I’m curious to thoughts and perspectives on this.
My husband knows I have a black light. So I would think he would do everything he could to avoid getting caught now. But let me tell you, it’s hard to really tell if you cleaned up properly or get rid of all evidence. I found evidence of cum in the bathroom. He’s said he hasn’t been doing anything. I don’t trust this is true. I think his curiosity got to him if he even could do it without P. Because for him he’s been using P for PMO since 14 or 15. He has just done m but it was a long time ago. When confronted will he tell the truth? I’m nervous. I won’t get mad. I know it’s hard to stop. Hey I’m right there with him. But I’m determined to never do it again with urges. Is he?
I know is very common to relapse. I know some don’t see M as a relapse. I do though. After all the research it is not something We want in our relationship. But I’m curious to thoughts and perspectives on this.
My husband knows I have a black light. So I would think he would do everything he could to avoid getting caught now. But let me tell you, it’s hard to really tell if you cleaned up properly or get rid of all evidence. I found evidence of cum in the bathroom. He’s said he hasn’t been doing anything. I don’t trust this is true. I think his curiosity got to him if he even could do it without P. Because for him he’s been using P for PMO since 14 or 15. He has just done m but it was a long time ago. When confronted will he tell the truth? I’m nervous. I won’t get mad. I know it’s hard to stop. Hey I’m right there with him. But I’m determined to never do it again with urges. Is he?