Having morningwood but no urges

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Ashish333, Jan 11, 2018.

  1. Ashish333

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    I've been watching porn since 9.i started to fap at age 13 and now am 19.a month ago i stopped fapping and joined in the gym after the month i hit flatline atfirst i was soo depressed and even had sucidial thoughts although i hit depression i continuosly went to gym i go and train both morning and even 2 hrs each time and so per day i train 4 hrs. I lost my morningwood and i got it back last week.i have regular morningwood now but during the day i have no urges but i have some libido like i know i can't do anything but i am getting attracted to beautiful girls like just to see their faces.i didn't even count how many days it was but roughly its the 4th week now.i got morningwood back after 3 weeks and i have no depression at this time.am going to college and training hard and seeing some changes in me.am a vegetarian since i was a kid i don't even eat eggs.idk how long it takes but i have faith that my libido comes back like my morningwood.please if anyone have experienced morningwood during flatline kindly can u tell me what should i do to increase my libido now
     
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  2. Prashanna

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    First aim for 30 days no PMO. Then do another 30. Your urges are supposed to be less each time you try this, so it may seem hard at start, but things start getting easier from then on. If you're experiencing ED problems, and if the 30 days didn't fix your issue, after two 30 day periods, try to go 90 after that. The 90 should be definitely more than enough to fix your problem since you're only 19.
     
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  3. throwaway11

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    I'm at Day 72 and my ED problems still won't go away you're making me incredibly scared. I have a gf and nothing seems to be working
     
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    Throwaway, congrats on 72 days! I don't know your history but I have read it can take up to a year to fully recover but your on path. Try to focus on joyful activities other than sex. I need to heed my advice on that one.
     
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    I heard that having a GF would speed things up does that mean I would theoretically need a YEAR to even get a boner with a girl?
     
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    Did you get boners while watching porn? Or when you M-ed, were you able to get it up while watching porn? If yes, it's PIED (Porn Induced Erectile Dysfunction), and it should go away after noFap for a while. Since you're 72 days in and still don't have a boner, it means you probably did it way too much than your body could handle. That's why they threw in an arbitrary '90 day' number as a standard. If you've been watching porn and jerking off since you hit your puberty, then it might take even longer. I was of the assumption that you're only 19, you started PMO-ing only recently.

    If you couldn't get it up watching porn and jerking off, then it's not PIED. If it's not PIED, then you may need to consult an urologist.
     
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  7. throwaway11

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    I never could figure out how to use my hand when trying to jack off when I first started so I ended up doing it to where I didn't need an erection and I'd squeeze my dick with my thighs. I still heard that a normal reboot would work fine and I went to a doctor who said blood flow and everything was normal so I'm not sure. If it doesn't improve in a few months I might see if I can go back to the doctor
     
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    Also, I feel as though I must be on the step to recovery since I've completely lost urges and feel as though I'm in a flatline. I actually switched to jacking off normally a year ago but at that point I was never fully hard (it worked to the point I could actually jack it off though) thanks for all your help man
     
  9. Prashanna

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    Hmm, I used to M by bed humping too, and I didn't know if i had steady erections. It was only recently when I too started doing it the normal way via hand that I realized the erections were weak, and also had weak erections during sex, so that's why I'm here. 33 days in no PMO and no signs of improvement yet. I'm 30 though, so I have more cause to worry. If it's psychological, you should be fine soon. Also, eat a lot of vegetables and fruits. Carrots, apples I heard help a lot. Also get other vegetables. One apple, one orange, one banana, one carrot , one drumstick , etc etc. But eat fruits separately. Because eating fruits beside other foods apparently doesnt help digestion. Fruits should always been eaten at least 1 hour prior to a meal or 2 hours after a meal. 1 hour prior because fruits digest faster, while normal food takes longer to digest. Also do Kegel's exercises and lift weights. Do all this while totally quitting porn, and you will start having throbbing erections. And looking at your own hard dick makes you feel proud. It's all worth it. And imagine the astonishment of your gf when you do so. You'll be a happy man. Diet is very important apparently. Never eat Corn Flakes. Apparently it reduces libido because the maker Kellog wanted people to not M or have sex. That selfish SOB , didn't even warn us. I've been having it for the last 2 years and that's when the quality of my erections started declining. Porn I think is the main reason for my ed, but diet just supplements it. You need proper chemicals in your body for normal functioning. So be it super stimulating porn or food intake, it all makes a difference.
     
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  10. throwaway11

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    Thanks! If it's not better in like 2 months I should probably see a doctor huh?
     
  11. Prashanna

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    Yeah. 1-2 months, then go see a doc if you can't seem to get erections by then. If you're really scared you can go see a doc even now.
     
  12. hope4now

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    It varies but I bet if you pray about it and ask God to show you that you are recovering you will probably feel bloodflow but don't act on it and see it as a sign your on path.
     
  13. Ashish333

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    Prashanna i did no pmo since the day i started i am not even having any erections it's been a month i never got an erection except morningwood from past two weeks.although its not so strong.and yesterday i was texting a girl and suddenly i got an erection while texting her but it too wasn't hard.my morningwood is getting a lil stronger now.
     
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    Morning wood is a sign of good sexual health so great news :). I had no morning wood for nearly 2 years, had one 2 days ago and a stronger one last night. I've been pmoing for 12 years so I guess it's taking me longer to heal. But it's healing slowly. If you're able to get morning wood then there's nothing to worry about. Everything down there is working. You're just not horny probably coz you're flatlining. And a small erection from normal texting a girl is fine. She didn't sext, so of course you're not going to have a 10/10 erection for that. How long has your noFap lasted? If you're showing stronger morning woods in just a week, you're healing really quick.
     
  15. Ashish333

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    Yeah bro my morning erections got hard from two days back.yeah am not getting too horny that's the problem even while watching movies i don't like those romantic scenes.i didn't count my nofap journey days.actually i stopped to masturbate and used to watch porn two months ago.after a month i wasn't able to control the urge so i masturbated that's it i went into flatline after that ejaculation.i stopped watching porn after that .it's on christmas i lastly masturbated and now its nearly going to be a month of my flatline journey not too much depressed my libido is normal but not so horny to get it up.yesterday i just tried by touching my D and rubbing out it had erection during the day unlike morningwood but it was very smooth and it didn't get hard.my senses down there is working lol.but finally i am getting hard morning erections after all.i have faith that my erections too becomes normal like before rock hard lol.and thank you for your support that you are giving me brother..
     
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    You're biologically fine. But avoid porn as much as you can for ED reasons. Because Porn Induced ED is just embarrassing as hell when you are with a girl. I am 30 and I had sex 6 months ago. Well I tried to, and it didn't work. No matter what she or I did, the erection was too weak and won't last. I did penetrate her, but with a weak erection. When she and I were texting, I told her "well I'm not a virgin anymore", and she replied "you are.". I asked "What do you mean I did penetrate you"... And she said "yeah you did, but I didn't feel anything so it doesn't count". Dude, you have no idea how crushing it is hear to shit like that. All your male ego destroyed. And the worst part of it is, she actually is a nice girl and didn't say it to be mean. She was just being honest and she really thought the sex doesn't 'count'. And I love the girl too. It's been nearly 2 months since she said that, but I'm hugely mindfucked because of it. That's when I decided I needed to do something, and that's how I found noFap. Despite terrible urges at times, I've not fapped once since then. Today marks the 41st day. I would've easily given in to those urges, but what she said is just too crushing to hear, especially when it comes from a long term friend of 12 years who actually cares for me.

    You're just 19. You will meet a girl someday in the near future. Just be sure you don't experience what I did.. Porn is entertaining in the short run. But long run it screws you. Even if you did P and M, make sure you keep it to an absolute minimum so you don't experience these problems.
     
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  17. throwaway11

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    Good to see you on here again my man- you get hard to porn though right? Sorry just wondering for reference
     
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    Yeah I can get really hard while jacking off to porn.. When I'm continually looking at porn and masturbating at the same time, it always stays hard. If I stop either one of those for a while, it goes down. I've been PMO free for the last 41 days though so I don't know current status, but I've been able to get harder by just fantasizing now (which was impossible before), but at the same time, I still can't keep up the fantasizing for a long enough time, so the erection subsides. But the fact that I can get harder while fantasizing is an improvement, also some morning woods here and there, but not everyday. Had one 5 days ago, and had one yesterday, but I never got them for 2 years or so before this. Also my size has grown when flaccid so I'm attributing all these to an improvement thanks to 41 days of no P and M.
     
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  19. Ashish333

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    Yeah bro my story is just almost similar.and i am loving a girl from past 6 years since i was in school and i still love her finally last week i came to know that she too likes me.she's the best girl that i can get cause she is both gifted with beauty and character.she's my first and last love and am too is going to be her first love and finally pied is giving the result for what i've done through out these years.if there is one change that i can go into past and change it.i would have avoided me from watching porn.its really so embarassing bro where it should happen as normal as we are breathing but...and suddenly am feeling like the starting week of my flatline now,depressed.i sleep everynight with the fear thinking will i be going to have morningwood tommorrow or not.i used to fap only once or twice in a week.i used to goto gym everyday the day i fap i used to feel very low energy so on that day i used to take a holiday from gym so i didn't used to fap much.i used to watch porn a lot on the other days bro.my porn escalated to a very dreading conditions like i used to watch forced,and bdsm.i used to watch 15-30 mins.i never liked normal porn as much as i liked those forced scenes now if i watch those bikini or kissing scenes in movies too i won't have any feelings i desynthesized my brain.i have not watched porn not even once after am flatlined.i have no interest in it anymore.after three weeks of flatline i developed some libido on real women but after it too slowly went down.am feeling like the beggining of flatline again.i am gonna do 90 days nofap already a month is coming to an end so till march am gonna do this.if i get cured i will not masturbate in my entire life i won't watch porn.bro am really so scared i wanted to marry and wanted to have children with my love but when she finally accepted my love now i can't do anything its just making me mad.i wish to have my erections back.i made a decision while i was in flatline that am not gonna have sex with anyother girl other than my love.hoping i will get my erections back by the end of march.and btw didn't it scared you when u weren't getting morningwood bro?
     
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    I never minded the morning wood. I didn't pay attention to it so much. I guess it started happening less in frequency or I don't know what, I just stopped noticing it. I never thought it was an issue. Only while trying to have sex, this shit occured to me and after googline I realized morning wood is a good sign of good sexual health and I haven't been having them lately. What worries me more is that I'm 30 years old now, so my testosterone levels have started coming down, and I never went to gym or exercised much, so my T levels might be lower than expected. I need to take a blood test to find out but having a knee problem for the last month that I can't even go out much. So much shit happening in one month, and I'm facing depression.

    As for your PIED, I wish you all the best. Good thing to cut out porn. But apparently, having sex with real girls is fine as long as it's not paid. Atleast medically speaking. Anyway, seeing you're Indian too, I guess you can't get girls to sleep with left and right anyway, like the western people do lol.
     

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