Having morningwood but no urges

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Ashish333, Jan 11, 2018.

  1. Shah Rukh

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    I do get erections nd in morning and get erections when thinking about girlsBut i dont get urges like for sex, you know and old habit that I left of over mastrubation, can finish sperm? Or will it come back
     
  2. bball_kid_35

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    Nigga I got to imagine my bestfriends hot sister in skanky clothing to get a boner and even then I can barely hold that boner
     
  3. Ashish333

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    Dude,this is getting really worst.yesterday my friends took me to a movie and while watching the movie during the romantic scenes too nothing happened down there..and i got a very strange feeling of uncomfortable while watching those scenes like i wanted to close my ears and eyes and run away from there.and yeah,morningwood(gets hard while am asleep and by the time i wake and walk two feet it goes)continues sometimes am having nightwood too evenbefore i fall asleep i have erection before sleeping when i close my eyes to sleep and no matter how hard i fantasize nothing happens.and i don't like fantasizing too libido went so low bro...
     
  4. Prashanna

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    I don't understand. You're asking if you'd be able to ejaculate? Or are you asking if semen is recreate
    Ok, judging from your statement I'm quite sure you got anxiety ED. You're very conscious about your thoughts so blood vessels down there aren't relaxed. I told you I had the same thing when I went to have this 'penile doppler scan'. Doc gave me some lone time in the clinic's bathroom so I can stimulate myself to a point where I have an erection (to take a reading). And I just couldn't, no matter how hard I tried, and no matter what I fantasized (including the raunchiest porn scenes). But at home, when I'm alone, I was able to get proper erections. Reason being I'm more calm and relaxed at home, and not while at the clinic. It's psychological, and not porn related, although I think I had a combination of anxiety and porn induced, when I tried to have sex. Now, I've rebooted from porn as I'm now able to get proper erections with just stimulation alone. I don't even fantasize sometimes, just the touch is doing enough.

    Like I said, you've put yourself in your second flatline period. I also told you, whatever the case, the first couple of times you try to masturbate, you won't be hard. My suggestion is just use lotion, and masturbate, even if you can't get hard. It will probably take a while to cum, but do it any way. You will have delayed ejaculation. After a few times of repeating this, your libido will be manually jump started, and you'll be back to your normal self again.

    You're probably more healthy than me physically. As I'm almost 31 years old now, no muscle, a low T level (but still in normal range), and only occasional morning woods. So main thing is your anxiety. That's why I said, turn your room into a romantic place for yourself, and try to just pleasure yourself, don't bother if you get hard or not. Libido IS low, but that's only because you've flatlined a second time when you probably didn't need to. You need to manually jump start your systems. For that, follow my advice.. Maybe text the girl you get hard talking to, just to kick start your mood, then tell her goodbye so you can start masturbating.

    Even if all else fails, your 2nd flatline will probably end one day sometime in the near future. I don't know how that works, because I jump started my second flatline manually by masturbating with a floppy dick and a delayed ejaculation.
     
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  5. Prashanna

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    I'm not sure what you're asking, but if you're asking if sperm regenerates, then yes. New sperms are formed, and old sperm is sent out either by masturbating or through wet dreams, or through urine.
     
  6. Ashish333

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    Yeah,i have anxiety ED tobehonest.and after reading your reply yesterday i just recalled evrything in the past.during my 2nd flatline when i tried with porn i was having hard flaccid.it was winter and so cold at that time my penis shriveled and became numb(just the 2nd flatline hit me at that time) at that time.that's when i tried to get it up with porn and failed.since my flaccid was hard and shriveled at that time there is no chance for blood to get into vessels since they are closed,which made me to think that i had physically damaged my penis.after that i was so scared to try it with porn and i didn't till now,that's when my anxiety started.due to my anxiety my brain is saying please don't show me anything that makes me non responsive and mentally my confidence to get it up goeing.after somedays i had a very big flaccid and it started to hang down.morningwood returned and that wood was super hard and very big that i have never imagined it myself.after texting some girls after having a few erections everyday i lost the morningwood and the flaccid size too.now sometimes my flaccid stays hard and some times it hangs down normally so loose and spongy but i agree that i got affected by anxiety ED .coz i don't want to fantasize.and my mind forgot the feeling of ejaculation and even erection(except morningwood).i guess since i am in very relaxed state while i was on bed during morning that's why i had boners twice that day.my brain now not even thinks abt porn.i had all the symptoms of flatline but idk is this the real flatline(coz many sites say that ur dick responds to nthng except porn during flatline) or i can't be normal again.i guess i take a bit long like 6 mnths.but until then wtf should i do if somegirl likes me coz i was avoiding a girl who was interested in me since the beggining of my 2nd flatline..coz even if she wears a dress for me or does something sexually i can't feel anything.so i avoided her,this flatline sucks man.i want my libido back and what ateps are you taking to cure for this anxiety ED.share your knowledge with me bro am too suffering frm anxiety ed please..
     
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  7. Prashanna

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    Anxiety should go away when you're accustomed to the girl and the place. Once it becomes a regular thing, your brain would settle because it's no longer new. This is why, when I met an Urologist 6 months ago, he said if I get married my problems would be fixed. I thought that was bull shit, but turns out that makes sense. If I got married, I may have anxiety ED with the girl the first few times, but once I got used to it, I'd be able to perform. I had anxiety ED in the clinic yes, but if I started living in the clinic everyday, my erections would turn normal even there. Anxiety because it's new. If you're anxious about any physical damage to your penis, don't fret. You're able to get morning wood when you're not thinking anything, so you're fine down there. IF it bothers you that much, even you can get a penile doppler scan like I did. The doc will use an ultrasound machine on your penis to check the anatomy for any defects. Since you're able to get morning woods, I'm certain it'll be normal, but I suggested it anyway only because you're anxious about physical damage. Your doc may give you a tablet to get an erection during the test, just so you're able to get hard, or ideally he'd use an injection on your penis. My doc just gave me a tablet (that relaxes blood vessels), and after stimulating myself in the bathroom, I was able to get an erection. But even with the tablet, my penis started going flaccid when I exited the bathroom and lay down on the clinic's table during the ultrasound test (that much anxiety). But the doc said my erection was still enough to get a reading, and the reports showed that I'm normal.. The scan costs you 3000 rs though approx.. If you have a doctor friend, ask him to prescribe the scan for you and a tablet. Oh first, you may need to be sure if your blood tests are normal. Creatinine levels, rbc, wbc and platelet counts need to be checked before you can be injected or taking tablets. If they're not in the normal range, you shouldn't be taking them.

    Well there's another alternative. You can upload some porn on your phone just for the test, because you're going to need extreme stimulation when you'll be super anxious in the clinic, you need whatever it takes to get you an erection at that time. I personally couldn't use porn at the time as my phone was fucked and I'm only using a black and white model now lol. So I had to take the tablet. So yeah, if you have a doctor friend, ask him to prescribe blood tests and the penile doppler scan for you. blood tests may take you around 500 rs, and the doppler 3000.

    But you see how much this anxiety thing makes so much of a difference. Even WITH the tablet I'm finding it hard to maintain an erection in the clinic, even when I was trying to fantasize the best scenarios. But at home, simply touching myself is keeping me harder for a longer time, of course with no tablets. I'd say take the test so you'd know you're fine down there anatomically. The tablet I took that day gave me a side effect though. I had a mild headache the whole day till I went to bed.
     
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  8. Ashish333

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    Yeah! Morningwood makes me to say everything is fine.and having boners while texting girls is too showing me that am not physically damaged.the thing here is my penis size increased during nofap.even the erection feels strange to me(as if i never had one lol)during my 2nd flatline i was watching an interview on girls in youtube and i didn't even knew that i was erected until i took a look down.and the one thing i did wrong is watching porn while abstaining from masturbation and even that i used very extreme things like bdsm(punishing) and peeing,forced scenes too..that one month i went on a extreme level.after masturbating once i went into my 2nd flatline(i was cured from pied at that time after quitting mo for month).after that winter took over my penis health.and since its over it feels normal.but i should get used to my new dick that nofap gave me its more fleshy even if i get erected(morningwood) if i touch the body of my penis i can feel the muscle like thing but a lil bit soft the sense of my penis has changed a lil bit.after reducing the time of texting(hi,how ru,bye)nothing more than. my flaccid became again a lil better.like i again climbed two steps forward which i was sent back while erections from texting during nofap.i want to have those random erections which we get lol..staying strong for that
     
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  9. bball_kid_35

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    Yea I got sick of not being able to have a boner yesterday at night so started fantasizing about this hot girl in my gym class and then watched porn and masturabated and I think now Im better, well Im about to go jack off to that girl 1 more time so peace
     
  10. bball_kid_35

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    I need to stop telling people in real life about how long my streak is or the weird stuff I watch or do, so I'm sorry (well not really) but I am going to be letting out my dark twisted thoughts on this site since it is not traceable back to me unless Im ddossed or someone take time to cordinate my stuff.
     
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    A sort of journal one might say
     
  12. Prashanna

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    Don't masturbate to porn. That's causing so many erectile dysfunctions. Most people on this site are here because of Porn Induced ED. That shit's true. It only gets worse and worse. Thankfully I wasn't into hardcore stuff all that much, so I was able to reboot in a month.
     
  13. Prashanna

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    Those spontaneous erections don't happen for me anymore. And I hear, once you're around 30 you start losing the ability to get random boners without any sexual thought. I get boners if I think something about something sexual or if I stimulate myself, but never happens automatically. It's even been a long time since I got a boner just looking at a girl on the street. But can't really speak much on that, I barely go out, and the girls in my city (chennai) dress very conservatively compared to North Indians or other metro cities like Mumbai, Bangalore.
     
  14. Ashish333

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    Dude,last night it was a nightmare for me.i woke up around 2:30 a.m i thought it was 5 or something lol.and it was the time my penis started to have morningwood slowly and i woke up,the erection gone when i woke up.i felt like shit.i was very anxious abt that coz from a few days i was having a semi morningwood and sometimes by the time i get up and walk it goes away.so last night it was 2 a.m and i lost my erection after i got up.i slept at around 3 a.m and woke up at 5 a.m.lol that's when i got a BONER.. bro!! i woke up and went infront of the mirror and took off my pants i can say that i was 100% erected.due to the effect of last night i started to masturbate and ejaculated.it took a lil more extra time than which i used to get for an ejaculation before. i started to stroke my dick.after stroking for some time i felt like losing the boner from 100%-80%.and that's when i started to fantasize to a real girl with a very minimal imagination like she kneeling naked and giving a bj my erection went to 100% again.after ejaculation it felt really great!this is the first time i ejaculated after 1 and half month flatline streak! So i should see for the results whether i get morningwood tommorrow or i lose it for some days again.but since am having boners and morningwood i guess there is no any damage to my dick.
     
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    Ok you need to know a few things. The wood you have at night is called nocturnal wood, and they happen around 5-6 times every night for everyone unless they have a problem. Those erections happen when you're in your REM sleep (deep sleep). I read online that this nocturnal wood works ONLY when you're in sleep, so as soon as you wake up, that wood INSTANTLY disappears. Your morning wood is different from nocturnal. Lack of morning wood does not suggest bad sexual health, because your REM sleep times maybe altered basically. But nocturnal erections are a must. Sometimes morning wood is associated with a full bladder too. So some people say that as soon as they pee the boner goes down. So if you don't have the need to pee immediately, you'll probably not have it in the first place. Don't worry about morning wood so much. Nocturnal ones are the important ones, and both you and I have them every night, which we may not notice because we re in deep sleep. I'd probably notice one erection at night that too only sometimes, when I'm slightly woken up. Doctors used to ask ED patients to do a Stamp test before. You attach stamps around your penis, and in the morning when you wake you find them torn, it means you're healthy physiologically. I'm not too sure about this, but I'm guessing I'm getting some wood at 5 am. I'm not sure if it's a nocturnal wood or morning wood because I slightly wake up at that time, and i go back to sleep to wake at 9, during which time I have no wood. So don't worry about morning wood, you're just probably having them at different times. Nocturnal ones are the ones that really determine your sexual health.

    Also congrats on your flatline breaking. You may have weak erections the next couple of times too. Try masturbating 2 days from now, preferably in the morning like today. Because in the morning your testosterone levels are higher and you're more horny than other times, and the sleep probalby puts you in a dazed condition where you're less anxious. After the first couple of times, you would be able to masturbate anytime wiht a 100% erection. Enjoy.
     
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    I was texting a girl yesterday and got erected lol i told her that i am erected she sexted lol.after i was just going throught the chat history and got erected again but not too hard it was really a very weak erection tobehonest.i masturbated and withing the break of 5 mins it again got erected again i masturbated but since i didn't get erections with porn before once i tried to test with porn. i was erected already while seeing a very soft porn my heart started to beat at a very high speed i can hear it.and i found the erection too is going it was like 3 sec.and i stopped porn and fantasized .i was able to hold the weak erection and after ejaculation i got again a weak erection within a very less time i didn't masturbate for the third time since i should have some energy for gym.i guess this is due to my no libido.i wasn't even able perceive porn as porn i just find them like just moving objects on my screen lol.nothing happens in my body except a strange feeling in my stomach and increased heart beat.i didn't had morningwood today and my dick shriveled and became numb and the flaccid became hard(maybe due to shrinking of dick i guess two sessions in with a very less time difference 5 mins.).and masturbation sent me into even more deeper flatline i should start my journey again.but what worries me is my brain stopped responding with porn whereas it gets erected with texting lol.i think this is libido issue.am scared to watch porn now to be honest
     
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    The fact that you're able to get erect while texting and not to porn is a great thing. Your taste in arousal has changed for the better, but even reading texts for erotic stimulation is a No, according to YBOP. And don't masturbate twice in a row like that, it's not good for your dick. I timed myself to masturbate twice or thrice a week, and never on two consecutive days. Your weak erections are probably because you're always worrying about your erections. Key thing is to enjoy yourself when you masturbate and not worry about your erection. This is why I wasn't able to have an erection at the clinic while at home I just wanted to enjoy myself. Masturbation does not send you into flatlines, only lack of it will. When you masturbated all these years, you never knew what a flatline was did you? And how weak were your erections on a scale of 10? Unless you masturbated with a flaccid dick (<3/10) twice in a row, it's not a flatline. And everyone would have a weak erection the second time they masturbate right after an orgasm. And looks to me you're overdoing it. Stick to once or twice a week. When you get horny, just shut all other thoughts. Forget about your dick, forget about this website.. Just think about the girl you were texting and how she didn't mind texting you when you told her that you had an erection. She's definitely fantasized about you then.. Maybe you can try going in deeper next time, but take it one step at a time. Don't ask her for a selfie or a date out of nowhere. Ask her if she watches porn or something sexual, then just play along. Use these thoughts for your masturbation sessions. IF at all you get lucky, you could reboot with her which is the best cure for psychological ED.

    Small tip. The first few times when I masturbated after reboot, I turned off the lights so I don't see and worry about my dick. Idea is to enjoy yourself, not do an experiment.
     
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  18. Ashish333

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    IDEA IS TO ENJOY YOURSELF,NOT DO AN EXPERIMENT..:)i like it bro..
     
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    I have completed xxx Days and I have rebooted. Iget very hard erections, but I do not feel any pleasure in my penis. It is har, but dead. Why is this?
     
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    I have completed 286 Days and I have rebooted. I get very hard erections, but I do not feel any pleasure in my penis. It is hard, but dead. Why is this?
     

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