Having morningwood but no urges

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Ashish333, Jan 11, 2018.

  1. MarinoBigFan1984

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    Corn flakes is a myth man. Masturbating in a prone position makes the reboot harder and longer. Just let the process take its course.
     
  2. MarinoBigFan1984

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    Ask a doctor
     
  3. Ashish333

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    Coz the sensitivity hasn't returned to its natural state.did u masturbated while rebooting?
     
  4. Shah Rukh

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    Nope
     
  5. Ashish333

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    Do u feel like ur dick is completely different like being more muscular than before while u used to fap?like it will be more fleshy and ability to sense will be less.try not touching it normally during the day.except for peeing doesn't even think abt touching or edging leave it like that and most probably sensitivity returns.how will you know when ur sensitivity comes back without touching it?ur morningwood shows that u are becoming more sensitively
     
  6. Shah Rukh

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    Explain what morning woods are, how they work and come in morning
     
  7. Ashish333

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    Morningwood are a sign of good sexual health.they show that u have a good test levels and u are perfectly all right.they just happen when ur bladder is filled due to that a nerve under the bladder will be pressed slightly which is reasonable for erections.so since the bladder gets filled ur body wakes u up by that morning erection telling u that ur bladder is full and u need to urinate to make it free that's how ur erection goes after peeing.coz the nerve is no longer getting touched by ur bladder..so what happens here is u are waking up ur dick without libido and if everything is fine u'll get rock hard like that...just stop touching or thinking abt ur dick leave it for a few days so the sensitivity returns back
     
  8. Shah Rukh

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    im having hairloss as well,,i feel depressed as well because of low sexual desires and hairfall,and sometimes in pee semen comes
     
  9. Ashish333

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    Dude,u seriously need a doctor.go and consult a doc immediately.coz,i think its not normal to have semen while peeing as far as i know(maybe i would be wrong) but its better if u consult a doctor and explain him everything and have u gone to gym while rebooting?did u had enough excersise and eat healthy and have good sleep?if u miss any of them make sure u'll improve urself in those areas...but u've rebooted succesfully that's a great news...
     
  10. That is just another way for your body to dispose of semen that needs replacing i.e. an alternative to a wet dream.
     
  11. It is quite normal in fact.
     
  12. Prashanna

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    Semen in pee is normal. Btw, how's your dick doing now lol
     
  13. Ashish333

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    Well i went into a flatline again:).and this is great.coz i know i'll be recovering again and its fine now.lol tbh married women are getting attracted to me(wtf is this nofap female attraction lol the way they look at me makes me really uncomfortable)on the other hand gym dudes are getting jealous looking my gains(they say u shouldn't look to big u should cut bro hahaha;-)) .i feel much better now after stopping to fap.brain is working super active my hunger for girls became normal(no erections yet flatlining :)).after nofap my dreamgirl whom i was behind for an year accepted me and we talked abt continuing our relationship till marriage.so after am back life will be more colourful(she don't know that am doing nofap she is my long distance relationship).well my face also looks much prettier now.well nofap gave me not just a gf but my dream girl as my wife she loves me alot and i too love her with my whole heart.she accepted my <3 last week...
     
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  14. Prashanna

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    Congrats man :)
     
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  15. Ashish333

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    Thanks bro..i'll be back as the person i used to be in a few months i guess(with boners haha).am able to achieve boners(if it gets up boners only not just getting hard or erections directly it becomes like iron) sometimes while i was fantasizing like thinking abt her but my brain stopped porn.i want to get my dick up even with porn bro.don't know whether it gets up with real partner or not..
     
  16. Prashanna

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    You mean you currently can't get it up WITH porn? Forget porn dude. That's what got you into this mess. Why do you wanna get erect to porn? The fact that you're losing interest in porn is only a good thing, but low libido overall isn't. Considering you're able to get hard fantasizing the girl, it seems to be you've rebooted. Just that some sort of anxiety could be getting in the way of hard erections. I'm never like iron these days considering I'm 31, but still hard enough. I tested my erection quality with some Indian mms porn recently lol. Watched some porn for literally research purposes last week. And looks to me I'm normal compared to those guys, some are better some are worse, but that's expected. Anxiety with a real girl may occur, but over time that anxiety with the same girl should wear off. But after all the tests I took in the last month I know there's nothing wrong with the plumbing down there and I'm able to get decent quality erections with touch and fantasy alone. I realized I'm able to get hard with just touch but find it hard to orgasm without fantasy..
     
  17. Ashish333

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    Yeah,am seeing the girls in a very different way now like i want to kiss them but i don't goto fantasizing like having sex with her(anyways coz my brain knows i can do nothing more than kissing that's why am not looking the girls with sex thoughts).last two days again i lost my morningwood just like before i mean when masturbated before i was loosing at that time my morningwood.i guess in the end of nofap process it becomes standard.other than that flaccid hangs lower smooth and spongy a lil increase in sensitivity(not able to get it up by touch though)no any erections any other time .after loosing morningwood only at mid-night i was finding myself erected and that too was not a good erection(boners gone) only hard even if i stand it hangs down but stays hard ehh.dude,i sexted a girl with zero libido without even having any enjoyment.well,that fucked my mind alot a girl asked me to sext and now am incapable doing that thing which i had a lot of power months back...from a so horny guy to nearly the person who doesn't even know what an erection feels like.my life sucks right now..
     
  18. Prashanna

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    Hmm, don't know why your libido is fucked up right now. What about urges? I had crazy urges since day 28. I flatlined for 2 weeks between second week and day 28. I still didn't have any crazy erections until even after the last day of noPmo (day 53). I relapsed on day 53 with a weak erection. My next session of masturbation also had weak erection. The third fap, uptil now, I'm having good 8/10 or 9/10 erections. Your flatline is definitely working different from mine so I guess your reboot process would also be different than mine. I started porn only at age 18. They say those who indulged in Pmo even younger would take longer to reboot. So I guess I'm sorta lucky in that way. I consider myself rebooted fine enough for the testosterone level that I have, which is sorta low but still within normal ranges (450 ng/dl). You might need longer to reboot I guess but I really can't say anything for you. I asked you to MO and manually break your flatline and you said you couldn't get good erections even after a couple of times, which is weird, because that's what worked for me. I guess what works for me doesn't work for everyone.

    You have 2 options. Continue noPmo and hope your libido and erections to touch and sext comes back, or go visit an urologist for his opinion if you should break noPmo. One of the main reasons I broke the streak is because I've read some cases where they never got their libido back after many months. Which is scary. Because either they need longer time to reboot or they completely lost their libido from abstaining too long. Some people report good things after abstaining for years. A doctor friend of mine abstained for a year and he is apparently very healthy sexually, so it's clear that everyone's body is different. I can't recommend you anything considering my previous recommendation didn't do well for you. I just wish you luck. Keep posting updates. From what most nofap members say, your flatline should end one day, and it could just be taking you longer. One thing's certain though. Worrying about it only makes you more anxious, making any erection that you might have normally, wouldn't work because of the anxiety. If you wanna overcome anxiety to an extent, you could even ask your urologist to prescribe a tablet for you. Whenever you wish to end nofap that is. You could use it for the first 3-4 times not more than that, because you don't want to make that a habit. Just to boot up your MO life again. What these tablets do is just relax blood vessels so helps erections even when slightly anxious. But extreme anxiety would render even those tablets useless. Like how I lost my erection after taking the tablet and went for the penis doppler scan. You could even use the tablet to have sex with the girl you sext for 1 or 2 times.
     
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  19. Ashish333

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    I had morning wood today.yeah i started at a very young age and my porn use used to be at a very young age like when i was 14.i was watching porn and i started MO without using porn for few months and came to know that masturbation to porn gives even more pleasure.which got me into this problem.actually,i used to get boners just by seeing the size of girls they don't need to wear tight clothes tbh.just by seeing their size i was able to get erected when i was doing fapping.one day i thought masturbation is wrong and gave up i didn't even know abt nofap i thought everything will be fine after stopping fapping and limited porn use like 1-2 times a week.and after being in this process i suddenly got hit by flatline i experienced the nofap superpowers in the first month itself improved posture(backbone gets straight),no any social anxiety,imprived eyesight(the world look more coloyrful to me).when i was hit by flatline i went to doctor and he prescribed vigra nothing worked i mean i took it at night and expected morningwood but nothing worked after three days i came to know that this is flatline.i stopped taking those tablets since someone said i shouldn't use them.amd after three weeks morningwood returned and i felt okay i improved a lil bit(i had an erection once with touch alone in the first streak) and suddenly morningwood gone again.i masturbated when it came again after few days.i went into flatline.now the same thing is happening after MO my penis shriveled,became numb,lost morningwood and after twoo weeks i got my morningwood just like the first streak(i got erections while fantasizing in the second streak as a bonus lol) and again its gone after few days now its coming and going but when it returned it lasted for few days continuously.later its slowly dissapeared had one today don't know abt tommorrow.i relapsed last time while i was in the same place where i am now.this time i wasn't even touching or worrying abt my dick anymore.except to pee i am not touching it.dude,if i know that i will get into a flatline if i don't fap i would have not stopped MO.coz i never had any problem to masturbate without porn too.and my libido while fapping used to be very high just by looking the size of a girl i used to get erected.just by accidentally touching a girl's hand too made me to get erected.now,my body and brain doesn't even know hiw an erection feels like lol.yeah i'll take a lil longer to reboot if i don't consider my relapse i started nofap from november now its march.hope i'll be cured in months i don't want to be like this for years,and since my morningwood returned faster than the other guys hope i'll be back in months only.tbh i doesn't even look like the person with a problem like this.am just 19 my appearance my build is super robust(anyways i goto gym and train 4 hrs a day)that's why even married woman(aunties)used to stare at me am an extrovert.dude,am feeling like i have used all the sexual power by pmoing these years.now,nofap taught me how u should use it one chance and i won't be the person i used to be before.i just want to marry my long distance relationship and have sex with her other than her i don't need any other girl.my brain even forgot what an erection is although i had it many times while texting..yeah,i'll be cured but it takes sometime.and congrats brother for ur recovery getting erected by just touch!...and take care of ur captain since we learned alot abt our lil bro in this journey.after this flatline i'll be an entire new person.i learned a lot abt myself in this nofap process.and feeling this as a blessing like this nature is giving me a hint to prepare me for the future not by going behind girls by controlling my urges since am going to be 20 this year.changing from a boy to be a man.i thank myself what i am doing for me..and thanks for supporting my journey brother!..
     
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  20. Gooding

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    Do you feel strong erections when you wake up in the morning? Do you ever wake up in the middle of the night for some reason and surprised to feel a strong erection?
     

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