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Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Ashish333, Jan 11, 2018.
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You should tell your girl about your flatline problem. If she really loves you she should be able to understand that it's a temporary phase and put up with it. You could still satisfy her in other ways. And rebooting with this girl is only good for you in every way. Try to meet her, go to her place if you could, try to have sex, forget about your dick and use just your fingers and tongue. Penis could be the organ you need to make babies but you're not looking to make them now. The girl I was with thoroughly enjoyed our sessions despite me having a limp dick. Foreplay is key bro. You do that right, she'd start doing the rest herself. Even if the penis doesn't work, she'd have a fun time. Now you're losing her for no reason. Tell her it's a phase you're going through. Maybe even take a testosterone test and prove to her that that's no reason to worry about your manliness in the long run. You should be more than fine considering your age and physique. Once you tell her about the problem, she'd understand, thus preemptively saving you the embarrassment. After all, no advice anywhere on the internet suggests you to abstain from a real girl. She could only help your reboot for the better.
Dude,morningwood is continuing from last three days.and what i noticed today is i think semen is coming while peeing like sometimes my someliquid is secreted on the dick and it becomes a lil wet its oily and when i pee the urine just goes out normally where this oily substance slowly goes down like a small thread hanging through my penis.anyways good morningwood from last three days
Nice.. How many days since nopmo now?
Since 4 weeks.yesterday,onwards my semen started to come with my urine i guess.coz,just like how we feel after ejaculation i felt same like as if i have masturbated.low physical energy.today almost my brain was superactive.i was stress free this entire day.tobehonest i felt like u was out of flatline today.but tommorrow onwards the same things willl continue coz this nofap is one step forward two step backward thing..but i'll keep progressing i even had some urges to masturbate today when i got erected while texting
Looks like everything is back to normal. Semen in urine is normal. The old semen NEEDS to be sent out of your body. Didn't you have wet dreams? I had some, but I kicked out of it knowing it was a dream.
Not dreams actually but the old porn started to flash in my brain.like i could imagine everything like as a video without any interruption(no erections to it tho) or nothing blurry.some of the times i am feeling like i am back to normal like i was even confident sometimes that i can do it.and suddenly it feels like flatline again.just the changes started yesterday so maybe in a few weeks everything gets stabilized.and while am on bed if i fantasize before going to sleep by closing my eyes i find myself getting hard.sensitivity returned and morningwood continues..so,yeah i feel like maybe in a month or two i will be normal.am making sure am not thinking abt my dick much or either touching it.yesterday i wanted to masturbate too but i controlled myself.and now with very less time of texting am getting erected no need to sext too just knowing that am texting a girl it stands up lol.yeah,if everything goes fine maybe by next two months i'll have my power back.since i used to fap while having erections in the past and now am not masturbating to those erections my brain is getting lil confused.these nofap erections are quite different too the hardness and maintaining the erection everything is new for me now.so yeah i'll give it time to get fixed to normal.when i am back this could be a great and best lesson to my entire life.am not seeing the girls directly with the thought of sex.which helped me to focus on my studies rather than going behind girls.if i am normal am having that belief that i can live with a single girl happily than maintaining a bunch of girls lol.so yeah this is the greatest lesson of my life.i felt like doing suicide in the beggining of my flatline and if i think abt it again its funny lol.thanks bruh! Fir motivating me at my hardest and in the darkest time of my life i haven't told anyone abt my flatline yet...
Good to know brother. I'd suggest, even if you don't tell your girl about your problems, maintain her interest. Don't let her go. Even if you aren't in the mood, I'd suggest sext her (if she wants) so you could make her happy. If you don't wanna tell her it's fine, it's your call, but keep maintaining the thought that one day you both would get together and do it. It's good for your testosterone and libido . About being monogamous, that's your call too. When I was your age I thought the same too, then I just wanted to fuck. But you're not me, so, do whatever makes you feel good.
Bro!suddenly from yesterday am feeling like everything is like in the beggining week of flatline except i am having morning erections.i am completely not interested in girls from yesterday.i just don't want to see not even a single girl on this earth.its the 3 rd month am still in flatline.this is my 4th time that it went to starting but this time only libido is lost but the size of dick didn't shrivel but am just hating girls for no reason don't even know why..maybe coz i know i can't do them anything this feeling started bro.
I really don't know what to say. Fapping causes you troubles, not fapping causes you troubles. We've been through this already. You never had a problem when you were pmo-ing. I can't speak for you bro, but I would just start MO for a few days because that's what worked for me.
From my side, I relapsed to porn for the first time today. I was fine getting it up on touch and imagination and even had weak morning woods for a few days which is better than before. And today I felt a terrible urge to watch porn and I did it. But I won't be getting too worked up about it. I just told myself no Mo-ing for 3 days from now, and of course porn is cut out forever as well. Though I think I may relapse to porn once in a while like I did today. But this porn thing is fucked up man. I had a raging boner while pmoing today, a kind I hadn't seen in a long time. Normal touch and imagination didn't get me this raging hard like it did just now. I looked at myself and felt like a porn star. I knew while watching porn that this shit is super unhealthy for my already fucked up brain as it has left a mark. Watching porn gets me super pumped up than ever. I wish I never watched porn. At least, you never let that shit back in your life again. MO all you want. Or not. Lol, really up to you whatever you feel would work best. Just no porn.
NOW. Hold on to your horses. Outside of something bad happening you have the rest of your life to enjoy sex. Take the time to heal. Pay the price now. There is no magic pill for this problem other than letting time continue. Just wait another 30 to 60 days. Try to become intimate if you fail then wait more time. Eventually you will be cured But never ever go back to Porn. You will be ok. I wish this information was available to me back 20 years ago.
Really,coz i was not being able to get it up with porn i had no stimulation to porn..erections to porn went suddenly in the beggining of flatline..and now porn is just like anyother video for me on theother hand am not interested to watch instead its irritating me that am not able to do every guy out there is doing while watchung porn.morningwood is the only erection am seeing throughout the day from last two months.its been 3 months i have been into a flatline..i am feeling like i can never have sex will this change bro?coz i am not getting attracted to girls i was like just go away girls.it used to be better two weeks ago now am no more liking to see there faces...i want to be normal how i used to be bro...
Bro..am having fever like three days back and didn't had morningwood one day too..yesterday and today i had but yeah sensitivity returned but even if i try to touch am not getting stimulated bro.its been 3 months nothing except morningwood amd even if i get erected while texting those erections feels really way more different than how we used to get.hoping for better..right now am not attracted to girls i was having some attraction week ago now i don't even have that.zero attraction.this scares me sometimes too..yeah 3 months in flatline.
What do you mean 3 months flatline? You said just a month ago or so that you masturbated to a morning erection. And that you tried fapping a few days after I told you and that it didn't help? Sounds to me you're just flatlining again. Unless you're suddenly liking men now, you should be fine with time.
Problem #1: You are watching porn.
Problem#2: You have masturbated
Not sure what else you are doing that is making you relapse. Dave Geem, one of the guys that originally push the nofap out on the Internet said it took him almost 15 months to get cured. You have to stop all bad habits..even the ones that might seem not a problem. If you are watching a porn video and you say you don't feel nothing or urge it does not mean that is not rewiring your brain circuitry back. If you are masturbating to morning wood then you are doing a disservice to yourself. This NOFAP works for Porn Induced problems. If there are other problems then see a specialist but that is after the you have gone a long time thru the program. Young kids that started masturbating do not know what normal sex or normal libido or normal penis size. You will get cured but it takes time and you have to rewire differently. Sex is not everything. It is just one part of your life. Fix other parts of your life. Abstain from Porn, Masturbation and Orgasm. Try to have a social life. Talk. Mingle. As time goes by then get a GF and try to get intimate. Things will workout but it cannot be forced. Don't be anxious. It takes time. Best of luck.
Yeah!thanks bro but i relapsed just a month ago to morningwood other than that i was not even having erections to masturbate?even with porn its just flaccid by porn i tried it on the 2nd day when i hit my flatline coz i felt there is something wrong in me and wanted to see if i can get it up and failed and secondly when i masturbated to morningwood last month i tried to look at porn while masturbating and i was loosing erection while watching porn so i stopped(and even that i just saw a girl changing her dress in that video and it made me to loose erection)other than that i never watched porn again from last month and i never masturbated again even i stopped to touch my dick after my relapse coz my relapse took me into a very deep flatline.now,am having morningwood daily other than that zero libido yeah i will give it time..let this fix with time.i will give up on porn and masturbation forever in my life.if i have to ejaculate that's gonna be only with my partner this nofap taught me really how to use our sexual power...dude,i feel like i can do anything achieve anything in the world if i can get my erections normally like how i used to get before....
Morning wood is just there. Touch it. Feel the manliness and go back to sleep. There is no reason to masturbate to it.
Keep up the journey. 1 month. Good work. You might get flatline for a while again. Maybe a couple of times but if you continue you will eventually get cured. You are young. Get this problem out of the way.
Yes!bro its just fucking my mind psychologically morningwood is the only thing that's making me happy and stay motivated..yeah i used to feel better one day and suddenly the next day i felt like everything was starting from first.once am cured i will give up porn and masturbation for life time.good that i came to know about this problems so early when am so young...
It's up to you if you want to abstain, but the things you're preaching here are misleading. You ask around the specialists, including Mr.Dave Geem, he will tell you that masturbation does NOT kill libido nor does it wire your brain to the wrong places. Masturbating to PORN is. I've visited 1 psychologist and 2 urologists and a good doctor friend (radiologist) in the last few months, they have all said that porn can cause your dopamine spike up hugely which theoretically would make you less aroused to real women while trying to have sex, thus leading to an erectile dysfunction during sex. Masturbation however, is fine, as long as it is sans porn. Long term abstinence can cause lowering of libido. This libido will spike up once they've rebooted, but continuing abstinence after the reboot will continue to only lower your libido. Even Yourbrainonporn.com says that the penis is a use it or lose it tool. It makes sense, why people who start nofap have a hard time in the beginning, but as days go by it's easier for them. Sure they develop more willpower, but your libido is also going down gradually. Before you start preaching from reading posts from random guys on the interent with 0 knowledge of biology or science, go ask a specialist.. An initial period of nofap is only recommended so you get porn out of your system (the time taken to reboot), not your entire manhood. Read more Yourbrainonporn and talk to specialists.
For a young guy like Ashish, he'll know when he's rebooted when one day he starts having crazy boners during day and spiking libido.. If he's able to get and maintain erections without porn, it does mean he's rebooted. For older guys like me (31), I don't get random boners like that anymore, but guys my age need to manually 'test' themselves by trying to masturbate after a while, and see if they're able to get erections (of course without porn). That's how I knew I rebooted. When I Know I can get Little Timmy up through just touch, I Know I've rebooted. Before I started nofap, I wasn't able to without porn. To sum it up, I'm not calling nofap bull shit. Nofap is good until your goal is accomplished. Those who say "nofap is a way of life" are who I have a problem with. It's THEIR way of life. If it is yours too, it's your decision, and your decision alone. Don't try to force your way of life onto others. That's how religions are formed.
I got my sensitivity back but, am still not able to get an erection with touch rightnow.is it normal to not be able to get it up even if ur sensitivity is good during the flatline phase?