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Having Sex During a Reboot

Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by Freitas.P, Jun 8, 2017.

  1. Freitas.P

    Freitas.P Fapstronaut

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    I'm 24 years old and had sexual experiences with 7 girls until now, but all after my 20's. Got into porn since was 11 but heavy accessed it by the 14's. That's 6 years of porn exposure until find the first girl. But I couldn't have an proper erection with all of them. This lead me to search about connection between erectile dysfuntion and pornography aaaand here I am.

    Now it's my first week without P, but MO'd yesterday in order to an urge and, to be honest, feel how it would be. Everything's fine, the sensation got better, more sentitive, a denser sperm.

    I have some girls that I can have sex, but I'm afraid that, again, don't get an erection. So there's an amount of days that I should respect or is just a confidence problem?
     
  2. The Committed one

    The Committed one Fapstronaut

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    Hi friend, on a previous attempt, i went without PMO for two weeks and had strong erections and orgasm from masturbation only that lasted longer than before with porn. I havent experimented this with a woman yet but in theory, the longer you abstain from PMO, the stronger your erections and greater your confidence. Also an important note, as tempting as it may be, please do not go near the blue pill in your attempt to last longer. From my experience of having used it before having sex, even though i lasted longer and my "wood" was hard, i had no pleasure or sensitivity. It was numb and unnatural to have a drug force an maintaing an erection. It was not fun at all. Abstain from PMO and you should feel a difference when dealing with a real partner. Good luck.
     
  3. DrAwesome04

    DrAwesome04 Fapstronaut

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    The more you abstain, the more you shall reap.
    Try to get away from all your trigger points. Socialize more. Let the door be open. Just divert your mind from porn and you will see the results.
    Our brain gets trained to get excited by seeing those unnatural bodies which we find sexy first and unavoidable later. But in real world this creates a problem. The brain forms neural connections and by getting erections on seeing porn constantly that connection becomes stronger. There are a few ways to destruct that connection-
    1. Try to avoid it- naturally it will get weaker day by day slowly. But it is tougher to abstain from PMO for longer days.
    2. Try to form new neural connections- Engage in sports, gyms, socializing. This will create New ones and thus catalyze the process of weakening of the porn- erection connection
    3.Get real- Try making conversations with real girls, admire them for what they are rather than their physical appearances. This will help you get more natural erections because when you are really into real girls, real girls are into you.
     
  4. Freitas.P

    Freitas.P Fapstronaut

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    I can tell you that use a blue pill was an option that I considered, to increase my confidence. But this was before the NoFap and now I know that things will be back on track with time. Thanks for the advice.

    I'm trying these things and I got my first week without P. To be honest, there was a chance of have sex today and I thought if was too early you know... But it didn't happen (the sex).

    Anyway, tomorrow I'll have a little surgery, ironically in my penis so after that I'll be forced to no PMO for another week, at least. In fact, I've learned to control myself with for the last 8 days so, I'll deal with it!

    Thanks for the advice
     

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