Not always sexual, but very often sexual. Is this just “human nature,” or is this problematic where I need to slow the fuck down and stop? Seems as if my brain won’t shut up. We are great friends and like each other a lot and have a lot in common. We’ve never seen each other outside of work, but one side of me is even wondering if she may end up cheating on him with me; she can tend to be kind of flirty at times (probably not, but idk, she said she’d cheated on a past boyfriend of hers—some of her scruples are kind of questionable tbh but I still like her). Can I control this while still being friends with her?