After asking a bunch of questions today, he admitted he preferred looking at brunettes during pmo. He said the blonds looked fake. I have dirty blond hair and it makes me want to go bleach it white blond!! He went 17 years, 6 babies and both successful careers before dday March 14, 2017. He says he no longer pmo, and no longer has pied, but I wish he would have just told me everything in the beginning. It’s being drug out, piece by piece, by my questions, not by him coming to me. How do I get him to tell me everything, so I can make a decision on if this heartache is worth going through?