Hi Christian Fapstronauts, As I’m studying up on Betrayal Trauma and the healing process, counselors have suggested reaching out to other guys who have been further along in the journey. My wife and I have just started our process since May, and I know we have a long road ahead. If you’ve been down this road will you share what has worked and what hasn’t? Here are some of my questions: - what made her feel “safe” again? - what does the healing process look like? - how long did it take for you to be sexually intimate again? - what are the coping mechanisms you as a couple employ when triggers or setbacks happen? Thanks much!