Some days ago, the weather was pretty hot, and we had to sleep with the windows opened. Our young neighbor was having sex and we could hear her moaning, screaming of pleasure for a very long time, and she was super loud ! The first two times it happened, my boyfriend didn't say much, but then, it happened at 6pm when we were cooking.. and he was like "Are they fucking like twice a day or what ?" I felt that he was angry, and asked him if he wanted to talk about it. He said that he was feeling bad for a reason. He was wondering why this girl was screaming so loud and for so long, he told me that when we were making love, I was not screaming that way. I am not that kind of girl that is expressing my pleasure that way. When I fell so good and close to an orgasm, I am breathless and it's impossible for me to make a sound. He answered me that this is very weird because on porn, girls are always moaning very loud, and his ex-girlfriend was making a lot of noise too. I looked online and I found some research made by psychologists saying that a lot of woman are screaming during sex to encourage their partners, or to make them stop by faking an orgasm. I read some interviews and different woman said that during their first relationships, they didn't know if they were suppose to moan or not so they were doing it even if they didn't felt much because woman moan. We saw it everywhere.. movies, TV shows, porn, books... It was a great conversation with my boyfriend to explain that every woman are different, maybe our neighbour is really appreciate it her own way, or maybe she is faking it.. I don't know but it's not because porn star are as loud that every woman as to scream to death during sex.. He also admit that hearing a woman appreciate sex excited him. He told me that hearing me saying " I want you to make love to me tonight" is way more exciting than if I show him my boobs.. At that point, I realize that language, speaking is very important for him during sex.. He never told me before that. I am wondering if some of you think that porn can be a cause ?