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Heavily Addicted and Seeking For Help

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by carvelz, Oct 13, 2019.

  1. Oct 13, 2019 #1
    carvelz

    carvelz New Fapstronaut

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    Hi everyone,

    This is not easy to confess, but I'm now 34 years old and I've been addicted to porn and masturbation since 13 years old. It has affected all my relationships and pretty much every aspect of my life. I now have a girlfriend that I really love and want to marry her, but I'm afraid this addiction will end up destroying my relationship. It's incredibly hard for me to not look at a woman with sexual desire, almost impossible, and I know that's messed up. I need some serious help and I don't know where to start. I just read about this website somewhere in an article and thought it wouldn't hurt to give it a try. I am quite desperate though and will do anything to finally destroy this addiction so I can have a fulfilling life with my future wife.

    Nice to meet you all.
     
    carvelz, Oct 13, 2019
    carvelz, Oct 13, 2019
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  2. Oct 14, 2019 #2
    romeolima

    romeolima Fapstronaut

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    Hello and welcome

    The first step is admitting that you have a problem, you have done that now. The next step is to set yourself some goals, it's best to make these achievable, so to start with it might just be seven days.

    I have been married for nearly 14 years and I am trying to cut porn out of my life completely. It's been hard but worthwhile and has made a real difference in my relationship with my wife.

    I wish you good luck.
     
    romeolima, Oct 14, 2019
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  3. Oct 14, 2019 #3
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    Deleted Account Guest

    Hello and welcome! :)

    We are glad to have you as a part of our community. Here are some quick links to get you started.

    Getting Started Guide | How to Use the NoFap Forums | Panic Button | Day Counter | Rebooting Resources | Forum Rules | Glossary

    If you wish to keep a journal of your progress you can do so in the appropriate section found here

    You can also take part in one of the many challenges available. It can be a tremendous help. Challenges

    Also, there are groups you can also join if you wish to do so. You can browse through them here. Groups

    There are plenty of wonderful, friendly and knowledgeable people here to help you along on your journey to a life free of PMO. I wish you nothing but the best!
     
    Deleted Account, Oct 14, 2019
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