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Hello. :) 1 time here

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by White_umbrella, Dec 11, 2019.

  1. Hello. :)
    First time here, starting nofap today.
    Intention: No porn, no masturbation, no orgasm.
    Religious bealiver "Catholic".
    Try to release some bad habits.

    A litle about me:
    I dont consider myself a porn addicted because and i dont think it is my real true trigger, i never full agree with porn but i admit watch some porn sometimes, not very often or to get real full excitement but to get some ideas, etc... because my interest in bdsm.
    My interesting in bdsm leave me to places to research and talk with others persons "chat, sexting, websites, things like that" and you guys know what happened in the end when we think to much in sex right?... and that leave to masturbation.
    I think my real trigger is my mind, my porn is my imagination.
    My interesting in bdsm...
    Lack of discipline, old habits help a litle to...

    I find this website dont even know very well how and why but i research a litle about this stuff... dopamine, drugs, youtube, nofap foruns, experiences and others more and learn a few things and enjoy and say that maby i shoud do it and try and here i'm...
    I think that i maby will reboot and fail a lot of times... but lets see where it goes.
    Ok lets start. :)
     
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  2. Welcome! If you’re like most of us you will fail many times during the process. But don’t get discouraged, it’s part of the process. As you patiently learn about yourself and apply those lessons, you can eventually change for the better. Take care and I wish you well. :)
     
  3. Welcome, friend. Feel like home. I mean, you will feel like at home here sooner or later, cause everyone is friendly. So yeah... Just stick to discipline, don't be afraid of relapse, it just will happen and be ready for rollercoaster this no PMO journey is.
     
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  4. Newuser101

    Newuser101 Fapstronaut

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    I have a similar story
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    I am doing NoFap again but I was clean for more than 100 days before. What helped me is making a conscious decision about why I want to quit. Like I didn't tell myself that I want to try. I decided that I needed to change. There was a terrible situation in life after which I realized that it wouldn't work to continue living the same way I did.

    Welcome and good luck.
     
  5. Thanks for the wellcome.
    Jefe Rojo
    I think i need to make the journal right? In the forum "reboot logs" and select the place of my age. Where i keep my diary about this new travel. correct?
    Thanks for sharing your journal it is allways very help to have tips about persons that go through this before. Every case is diferent but is allways help.
    Bragi
    You right we need to help each other, and thanks for share your meditation journal. I will chose not follow this process with oriental meditation, i think it will make more damage and it will not help me..., and maby is bether i dont explain much why i think it will be something like a bomb if i do it here, lets try to say the easy away i try yoga before and in yoga they make me do meditation and when i see in my meditation i was probablly call dark energys and i need to stop, yoga good exercize they meditation maby not... Like reiki is very pretty but around us there is not only good energys and you can get lot of stuff good and bad.
    Newuser101
    We need to start from some place.

    Thanks for the wellcome.
     
    Last edited: Dec 11, 2019
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  6. Yes, start a thread in the “logs” section under your appropriate age group. I have found keeping a journal very beneficial.
     
  7. It's not an addiction for me as well but I just don't wanna do it anymore. I wanna go out and pursue real woman, be more productive, be more in control of myself and my life. Let's go mate!!!
     
  8. Tommybowser

    Tommybowser Fapstronaut

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    I find when my friends talk about it I start thinking then it leads to porn. Then fapping I'm very frustrated.trying to not look at por n when it seems everyone is of talking about it makes it hard to be with friends sometimes
     
  9. la casa de papel
    I consider myself addicted, when you want to stop something and you have problems to do it, maby we got something here.
    I just say i dont consider myself a porn addicted to [video,images] because i dont think is my real true trigger.
    I think you are right, the time we lose in this things we can use it for something good and productive like read, watch movies, go with friends, help institutions, others persons that need help, make exercize, things like that...
    Maby one good away to avoid porn and this stuff is replace our time with this procuctive stuff because if we are busy doing something and we have things to do it, we dont have time to think about porn. Keep ourselfs busy.

    Tommybowser
    I think you are right we are start to living one very extrem sexualized society and every choice have is consequences.
    Just because the others are doing it, you dont need to do it.
     
    Last edited: Dec 14, 2019
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  10. Totally agree with you mate!
     

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