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Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by mattl182001, Apr 16, 2019.

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    mattl182001 Fapstronaut

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    Hello Everyone!

    My name is Matt and I’m 36 years old. I’m so glad I discovered this site. I’m currently in a few struggle with lust. Here’s my brief story...

    Since I was a teenager I feel like all I can think about is wanting to have sex. I was habitually watch porn every day, i would sleep with any girl in sight, I’ve been with more women than I care to admit, and I check out every girl I see.

    I got married last year and vowed I would never look at porn again. I was going great until recently and got drunk and watch porn. I feel so guilty. Because of this I have done a lot of reflection the past couple weeks. Even though I went months without watching porn, I was lying to myself because I would scroll through Instagram and masturbate to models on there thinking “it wasn’t the same”. Now that I’ve admitted to myself that I have a problem, I am committed to stop all forms of lust.

    The one habit I can’t seem to break is that I’m still constantly checking out women. Every female I see, I catch myself having sexual thoughts.

    I love my wife and she does not know anything about this and I must stop this behavior before it gets out of control.

    Any tips and advice is appreciated. Thanks!

    Matt
     
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  2. Hello and welcome!

    I think it’s safe to say that we all struggle with checking out all the attractive girls out there of all ages. It’s part of the addiction. I’m still dealing with it and I probably will for the rest of my life. Have you ever thought about telling your wife about your addiction. At first I though that would be suicide. Fast forward to now and she is the kindest, most loving accountability partner a guy could ask for. Just something to kick around.

    Alcohol is not going to do you any favors either. At least till you get ahold of things. There are plenty of wonderful and knowledgeable people here to help you along the way. I wish you all the best! :)
     
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    mattl182001 Fapstronaut

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    Thanks for the warm welcome and appreciate your advice. I’ll take as many tips and encouragement as I can get it!
     
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