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  1. MillerGD

    MillerGD Fapstronaut

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    Hi there,

    I'm 32 years old male, happily married, having issues with porn and masturbation addictions. I work from home, and alone at home during the weekdays when wife goes to work. I'm not sure if its gonna help but i feel like i need to share.

    Like I said, I have these addictions and suffer from pied. I stopped PMO last week. This is the 6th day without any porn and masturbation.
    But when I come to think about it, I'm beginning to realise my psychological problems are deeper.

    Since I quit pmo, I've been waking up with morning wood, although its far from being %100 percent. I feel the urge to fap, but I dont. Still, I find myself fantasizing in bed.

    I cannot understand this. My wife is -objectively speaking- very hot woman at least an 8. I am someone who doesnt feel any emotion strongly (both positive and negative emotions) but still I know I love her. What I can't understand is why I am not sexually atracted to her and I fantasize about other women who aren't nearly as hot as my wife?

    I'm thinking pmo isnt the cause of my problems but maybe a symptom of whatever sickness i have.

    Still I am very determined, I'm never watching porn, or masturbating again.

    Sorry for the messy introduction.
     
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  2. Hello and welcome! :)

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    There are plenty of wonderful, friendly and knowledgeable people here to help you along on your journey to a life free of PMO. I wish you nothing but the best!
     
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