Hello, I'm new here

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Prussard, Oct 6, 2019.

  1. Prussard

    Prussard Fapstronaut
    NoFap Defender

    Greetings guys,

    I'm 22 years old from Germany. I started watching porn when I was 13 years old. At that time I was watching vanilla stuff. Over some time I watched porn more frequently and become pretty much addicted to it. The kind of porn I watched become more extrem. My taste went from vanilla to femdom, hypno and shemale porn. Every time after I watch this type of porn I feel disgusted and miserabel. Sometimes I say to me what would my ancestors think of me I they could see me in this situations.

    The last few years I spent too much time infront of the computer masturbating to porn or mindlessly surf the internet. I'm always tired and lazy, have social anxiety, depression and feel meaningless. For me the 2010's are kind of a lost decade. Since last August I'm trying to quit PMO but I failed numeros times. Currently I'm on day 6 but my mind is full of sexual thougts and is rationalizing to masturbate. I learned from the previous fails that I can't fight this addiction alone. It's better to have a supportive community to quit PMO once and for all. I read some succes stories on this forum and this gave me hope that one day I'll be no longer addicted to this filth.

    Thank you. We're all gonna make it.
  2. Hello and welcome! :)

    We are glad to have you as a part of our community. Here are some quick links to get you started.

    Getting Started Guide | How to Use the NoFap Forums | Panic Button | Day Counter | Rebooting Resources | Forum Rules | Glossary

    If you wish to keep a journal of your progress you can do so in the appropriate section found here

    You can also take part in one of the many challenges available. It can be a tremendous help. Challenges

    Also, there are groups you can also join if you wish to do so. You can browse through them here. Groups

    There are plenty of wonderful, friendly and knowledgeable people here to help you along on your journey to a life free of PMO. I wish you nothing but the best!
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  3. Prussard

    Prussard Fapstronaut
    NoFap Defender

    Thanks I appreciate your help.
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  4. IG95

    IG95 Fapstronaut

    Hey man welcome. This pretty much is my life I'm probably just a year older than you.

    I'm on day 1 of my journey. I wish you all the best brother.
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  5. rafael33

    rafael33 Fapstronaut

    Welcome to the Nofap community.
    The NO PMO journey is not easy but worth the effort.
    The community will support you.

    You are not meaningless at all. You made the habit and you can break the habit.
    Lost years? Forget it. This is your very individual learning process.
    Focus on what you really want: true happiness. You can only be truly happy when you get rid of addiction.

    Schon Tag 7 NO PMO? Das ist großartig. Ich weiß nicht, wie man “relapse” am besten übersetzen soll. Für mich gibt es keinen Rückfall. Das einzige was wirklich wichtig ist: mache immer gleich den Neustart. Frag nach Unterstützung und laufe nie weg. Du schaffst das!
    Ich sehe deine sehr ernsthafte Bemühung und kann dir nur nahelegen, dich zu akzeptieren und dich als das zu sehen, was du tatsächlich bist: ein wundervoller Mensch.
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  6. Innervision

    Innervision Fapstronaut

    Welcome, friend! You already have the most important thing on this path: the motivation to leave this addiction behind and start a new life. Considering the hyper-sexually environment we live in today, this is something big already. Make sure you get all the important information about porn addiction and how it can affect multiple aspects of our lives (I'd highly recommend the book "Your brain on porn" to start off). This is a difficult and non-linear journey you are beginning, but totally worth it! All the best!
  7. fedmom

    fedmom Temporarily Suspended

    If you go to my profile you will find a thread I've made on this that might help.

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