Hello There New Guy Here Who Has Destroyed His Life

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Yodruids, Sep 16, 2019.

  1. Yodruids

    Yodruids New Fapstronaut

    I am Yodruids
    I am 19
    I have been trying to do NoFap since 3 years and every time I fail. I feel like I can't do NoFap because I don't have the power to do it. I have tried so many things to stop myself but I could not cross the mark of 10 days. Nowadays even 5 days seem really hard. I fap like 2-3 times a day and this is my second time in my life that I fapped 4 times. I have no hopes for my life. I don't wanna live anymore.
  2. BreakingBenjamin

    BreakingBenjamin Fapstronaut

    Everyone has the power to stop, you gotta believe in yourself. I used to fap 6 times a day sometimes, but i had to stop this habit at 23 yo because it really harmed me.. you are 19, your whole life is infront of you. Imagine all the things you can change in your life if you will stop fapping so much !
  3. MuscularSherlockHolmes

    MuscularSherlockHolmes Fapstronaut

  4. Hello and welcome! :)

    We are glad to have you as a part of our community. Here are some quick links to get you started.

    Getting Started Guide | How to Use theNoFap Forums | Panic Button | Day Counter | Rebooting Resources | ForumRules | Glossary

    If you wish to keep a journal of your progress you can do so in the appropriate section found here

    You can also take part in one of the manychallenges available. It can be a tremendous help. Challenges

    Also, there are groups you can also join if you wish to do so. You can browse through them here. Groups

    There are plenty of wonderful, friendly and knowledgeable people here to help you along on your journey to a life free of PMO. I wish you nothing but the best!
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  5. rafael33

    rafael33 Fapstronaut

    You made the habit and you can break the habit.
    You can’t imagine how strong you are.

    Welcome to the Nofap community.
    The NO PMO journey is not easy but worth the effort.
    The community will support you.

    Maybe you want to make some commitment- not to the community but to yourself.
    I recommend to install a counter and a personal journal.
    Good luck!
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  6. Coffee Candy

    Coffee Candy Moderator Assistant Staff Member Moderator Assistant

    Heyyy welcome to the NoFap forum : ) It's nice to see you here fighting the good fight alongside us!

    Here is just some advice:

    First and foremost please take a look at each section in the forum, there might be something(s) you may find of big help to you. Feel free to post there :+)

    Then secondly I just strongly advise you to be active on your profile(as there quite a few active people in the profile section). Please start by choosing an avatar and then make daily status posts to show you're active and needing support/encouragement. They've also got a neat little feature that shows freshly posted statuses for all users to see. People will find your profile and give you encouragement/support.

    People (are beginning to) love communicating in the profilesection..(it should be and is )mostly spportive talk but it doesn't hurt to deviate from supportive talk. It would be great to have you join in and support others in the threads, profiles, and journal. Make sure and be grateful for the help you received and help after receiving some. Invest in some people's journeys. We could always use your help and in return you shall receive some as well!

    Make sure and be grateful for the help you received and help after receiving some. Invest in some people's journeys.

    Thirdly, You should also highly consider creating a public journal and write about your days in more depth for us members to follow along your journey and offer support to you by way of posting in your journal.

    Last but not least: Good luck on your journey here, make sure to really give it a try with all your heart!

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