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  1. Jul 12, 2019 #1
    mrtumnus

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    Hi all! I'm a 32 year-old male with a wife and kids. I am a Christian, and have been struggling with PMO since I was 11 or 12. It's been an on and off struggle mostly on my own, so I'm glad to find this community of like-minded people trying to improve themselves, especially outside my usual Christian circles. I've previously been a part of in-person accountability groups and still have at least one partner I keep in touch with. I figured that since I spend a good portion of my time online, I might as well have more help from Internet People.

    I'm looking forward to seeing how this will work. My current streak started at the beginning of this week. I finally realized how PMO was affecting my attitude toward my wife and kids (resentment, anger, irritability, lack of energy). Can't have my cake and eat it too! My goals for this 'reboot' are:
    • 90 days PM-free
    • Increase non-sexual interaction with my wife (or if sexual, then O is not expected)
    • Don't expect sex
    • Don't be resentful when "not getting enough"
     
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  2. Jul 12, 2019 #2
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    Hello and welcome! :)

    We are glad to have you as a part of our community. Here are some quick links to get you started.

    Getting Started Guide | How to Use the NoFap Forums | Panic Button |Day Counter | Rebooting Resources|Forum Rules | Glossary

    If you wish to keep a journal of your progress you can do so in the appropriate section found here

    There are plenty of wonderful, friendly and knowledgeable people here to help you along on your journey to a life free of PMO. I wish you nothing but the best!
     
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  3. Jul 12, 2019 #3
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    Hey & Welcome to NoFap Community! :)

    You are in the right place for recovery here. We are so glad to have you with us to beat this addiction together.

    You can go read some Success Stories in the "Success Stories" section to learn more about the benefits of NoFap , get useful tips and ideas to help you in the reboot.

    If you have any question about rebooting, you can ask it in the "Rebooting" section.


    And I would recommend you to make your own journal in the "Reboot logs" corresponding to your gender & age to track your everyday progress.
    You can also join challenges in the "Events & Challenges" section, to keep yourself motivated and focused.




    You may start by checking the links below:
    Learn more about Rebooting.
    Forum Usage Guide.
    List of Rebooting Ressources.
    Glossary of terms used in NoFap community.




    Best of luck to you in your journey!





    -The Winner
     
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  4. Jul 19, 2019 #4
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  5. Jul 20, 2019 #5
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    He is the friendly satyr the kids meet in Narnia in the 'the Lion, the Witch & the Wardrobe' by CS Lewis (my favourite children's book). There is a link to pmo here - I find it interesting as while Tumnus is the model of the perfect 'nice guy' from Lewis' epic, Pan - the Roman/Greek god of lust and debauchery - was also a satyr. I think Lewis was telling us something here: never judge a book by its cover, and furthermore everyone can receive redemption. Love Lewis TBH. He was a wonderful human being and author.

    P.s. Sorry for invading your welcome thread @mrtumnus. We have the same handle!

    P.p.s. Welcome from me too!
     
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    goodnice 2.0

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    haha nice! I didn’t know pan was god of lust. I thought he was god of nature from percy jackson books

    ya lewis is a smart guy
     
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  7. Jul 21, 2019 #7
    Son of Arathorn

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    Yes, Pan would definitely be the 'god of PMO' (not Aphrodite/Venus as some might think - an important distinction perhaps).
     
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  8. Jul 22, 2019 #8
    mrtumnus

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    Thanks for the welcome guys. Also a big fan of Lewis. Love his space trilogy (Out of the Silent Planet, Perelandra, and That Hideous Strength).

    @Mr. Tumnus - Now I know who's stealing my handle on other sites! Haha
     
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  9. Jul 25, 2019 #9
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    Hi @mrtumnus, all the best to you! If you want to join 'The Matrix' challenge click here> 'The Matrix'
     
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