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Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Sufc101, Nov 23, 2018.

  1. Sufc101

    Sufc101 Fapstronaut

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    Hello

    Im Benjamin and I have been wanking my life away for a number of years. Finding myself slightly addicted to masterbatibg to porn (and a certain fetish I have) I've come to the decision i need to aradicate this from my life, and try to improve my life. I've unfortunately been suffering some ED problems which I can only link to my excessive porn addiction, as over all I am a health young guy who looks after himself, no health issues. I am hoping quiting porn will help me beat this ED situation.
    My goal is to not quit masterbation altogether but to limit it extremely and to quit porn for good. I'm 5 days in no porn/masterbaton I'm very horny but holding on in there. I was pleasantly surprised this morning I was sporting a hard morning glory which gives me hope this is the right path to take.

    Be great to hear and speak to people about there adventures.

    Benjamin.
     
  2. cvpr11

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    Hi Benjamin.

    I've also had a few problems with ED and some weird sexual fantasies i've had throughout the years which i now believe are related to porn addiction.

    It's been 7 days for me and i'm not really horny, except in the morning where i usually wake up with a solid morning wood ahahah. The rest of the day i haven't even thought about sex or masturbation so i believe i'm going to get throught this hopefully :)

    Good luck to you too.
     
  3. Hey man, welcome to nofap. You've come to the right place thats for sure :)
     
  4. Sufc101

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    Hi Cvpr11

    Good luck to you sir.
    Yes this ED has been a right frustration for me. Hahaha I'm 32 years of age, when I was younger I wasn't really good a getting girls, now I've started to have abit of success with the girls this ED problem occurred. I had no problem getting a hard on, it was maintaining it what was the problem. I've dabbled with Medication what gets me super hard but I want to get hard with out medication. I'm sure this porn addiction and my catfight fetish had something to do with this... (my fetish is catfighting by the way)

    I'm aiming for 20 days to start with.... give myself a reasonable target first off..... no doubt I'm going to slip sometime.. to be expected.

    I've been feeling quite horny... I'm waiting to experience this 'Flatlineing' what I've been reading about......

    like to keep update on how you progress.?
     
  5. Sufc101

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    Thanks mate
    I sure do hope so, it's a great relief somewhat to a forum like this to speak with people who are going through the same shit and can relate.
     
  6. cvpr11

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    Yes ED is a motherfucker. To me it's been the other way around, i was a better performer in my younger years but in these last couple years its been getting worse and worse, to the point of scaring me and questioning my fucking sexuality, at first i thought it was just performance anxiety but then i started reading about what porn can do to you and i believe the shit i watched has a lot do with it too.

    Catfighting? Brother that's nothing compared to the shit i used to watch ahah (you can read my earlier post if you want to know but it ain't pretty i can tell you).

    I'm aiming to stop PMO all together, i'm a little worried of not being able to stop masturbation but i think i can completely stop porn, it has really messed me up and i need to cut that shit.

    Yes i would like to keep an update, maybe it can be helpful.
     
  7. Exactly
     
  8. Sufc101

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    Cvpr11

    Yeah I'm with you there with quiting pmo. But as far as quiting masterbation altogether I don't think I want that, I'm going to try and stay away from it as long as I can but every so often I think a reales is good, I haven't got a girl at the moment either so I think it's necessary to have that 'you can if you really need to' attitude . I was masterbating a good 2 3 times a day it got right out of control, everything in my life was taking a backward step. If I can restrict myself then it will be a step right direction. I want cut out porn permanently.

    Yeah, ED does question your masculinity and fuck your mind right up. I hope this sorts your situation out.

    Day 6 nofap
    Feel energised and ready to tackle the day.
    But like day 5... woke up with my penis hard and the big urge which I fought of...put my jogging bottom on to detour me.
     
  9. cvpr11

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    I think i'm gonna do what they call hard mode and shut completely off for a long time, i believe porn has really fucked with my head and that's what i need right now. After all what do we have to lose? It sure as hell is not gonna make my ED any worse. I understand if you don't wanna quit masturbation completely, i also think that is gonna be hard for me too but i'm gonna try to fight it, honestly the porn is the biggest issue to me, i actually feel like i wish i never saw porn now that i read all the stories around this site.

    Yeah it does fuck with your mind big time and make you feel like less of a man, doesn't help that i lost some relationships because of it but oh well life goes on. I've never used ED drugs, did they work well for you? I don't really want to use them because i want to achieve an erection naturally but if it gets too bad i might have to use them.

    Day 8 for me and it went pretty smoothly except for the usual morning wood ahah, but i'm getting used to it so it's easier to fight the urge to fap. Have a good weekend man.
     
  10. Benjamin. your introduction is absolutely priceless my friend. its very refreshing to see someone cut to the chase. real quick so I don't bore you... you said your goals were only to limit masturbation and eradicate porn. just a thought.. are you addicted to masturbation? if yes, then you should probably do a 90 day hard mode.. if no, then you should quit that too as its a very similar thing to porn. would you advise someone who is heavily addicted to drinking hard liquor to switch to beer and wine? no good sir, you wouldn't. good luck to you and all the best
     
  11. Sufc101

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    I've tried medication before now and for me it works like a dream, but of cause using this is just painting over the cracks, plus it is not cheap. Like you I want to have sex and maintain a hard on on my own away from medication.... I think Vi Agra can be a good safety net... and helps build the confidence slightly, but got to try not to depend on it.

    I fuckt up Saturday and relapsed on day six.... felt very depressed about. Day 2 I'm on again.


    RA12345 hello mate
    I am going to take your advice and try a go 90 days hard mode. The way you put it made great sense, and I think it stupid of me to give myself licence to masterbate..... I have to admit it I'm addicted to both and both need to be faced head on.
    Good luck to you as well my friend.
     

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