I am a new member of NoFap.com, my friend sent me this link What made me want to start a NoFap pledge was because of my issue with my erections. Around the end of January I was about to have sexual intercourse with a woman for the first time in my 24 years of being alive. before we were dating I was constantly masturbating and looking at porn on web sites like that of 4chan and xnxx, the night that I thought was supposed to be my breakthrough in losing my virginity ended in terrible embarrassment when I failed to gain an erection. the worse being of it all that my date began to have doubts that I was attracted to her and began to question my sexuality. To add insult to injury on her she then asked "maybe your not attracted to me", my mind went blank when I said what she told me without even thinking. I went through this deep depression after that, I was eventually so traumatized about that night that I couldn't get an erection for a few days,the good thing coming out of that is that I began to exercise more and immediately stopped viewing pornography, I came up with an idea why that happened, I exposed my brain into something new, something that I wasn't aware accustomed to, I guess that night was a blessing in disguise, my porn viewing is at a minimum and I masturbate like only three times a week but I'm concerned about my sex drive because just recently, my date and I are back to talking and it looks like she wants to maybe date sometime soon and I want to take NoFap seriously for the big night.