I'm now 8 days into my NoFap journey and doing very well I'd say, but something new has just come up. I'm in college and away from my girlfriend (I won't see her until Thanksgiving), and I was just wondering - is thinking about sex bad altogether, or is it just the fake and gross stuff that's in porn that is bad? Sorry and I'll try not to be graphic, but I was just thinking about sex with my girlfriend in my head, and I wasn't sure if this was something that is or is not recommended when trying to reboot. Obviously it wasn't the gross, filthy stuff like porn at all, but I was thinking about the real thing (the love and everything). What are your opinions on this? Should I feel bad about doing this, and do you think this is something I should try to avoid? Just for clarity here I'm not thinking about it all the time or anything like that, but just for a few minutes and would love to hear some feedback. Thanks, guys!