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HELP, CLOSE TO A RELAPSE!

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by BennyLow78, Apr 14, 2016.

  1. Apr 14, 2016 #1
    BennyLow78

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    Warning, this may trigger someone so please be careful



    Right, am currently trying to get to sleep, need to get up early tomorrow, but I have a massive boner. Really want to fap it away. My AP has been a help, but am still struggling. Even my trick to get rid of a hard-on isn't working. Feel like just touching it will cause an O. Been using the emergancy app like mad, but I still feel like this, help!
     
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  2. Apr 14, 2016 #2
    DocZhivago

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    Austin Powers says, "MARGARET THATCHER NAKED ON A COLD DAY!" Ha!

    Seriously, is there something else you can think about? Something funny, or a prayer you can offer for someone who is goign through a difficult time?
     
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  3. Apr 14, 2016 #3
    BennyLow78

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    Ew, Margaret Thatcher... Ugh.
    Have tried to do some things around my room, bit of tidying, made a hot chocolate, I still have a boner, but I think I can get to sleep now, the main urge has gone.
     
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  4. Apr 14, 2016 #4
    BennyLow78

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    Wow that was horrible
     
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  5. Apr 14, 2016 #5
    DocZhivago

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    Austin Powers is not the best character to follow for straight young men trying to leave PMO. But the Margaret Thatcher line is a classic, and the humor helps redirect the brain.
     
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  6. Apr 14, 2016 #6
    BennyLow78

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    Ha true, if it keeps on, I'll try some classic comedy. That must work
     
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  7. Apr 14, 2016 #7
    Awakening123

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    Do 10 push ups and the boner will go away. Cold showers help too.

    [​IMG]
     
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  8. Apr 14, 2016 #8
    NF SINCE BIRTH

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    Looks like you made it trough. Anyways, PMO sucks. Never again. Seriously. It is the worst thing that has ever happened to me. You will feel so good the following day for making it trough. I felt awesome from day 10 in my last streak untill day 19, lost my virginity even. At 23. PMO has ruined many years of my life. I relapsed at day 19 and binged several times. All my progress gone yust like that. I am now back at 5 days and I do still feel like crap. It simply isnt Worth ruining a week or more because of one fap session. Even a normal hangover is questionable, but if someone told you that one sip of alcohol would give you suicidal toughts for a fucking week after then I bet you would reconsider if it is really Worth it. The PMO hangover have the number of the beast written all over it.
     
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  9. Apr 15, 2016 #9
    BennyLow78

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    WOW! that was ridiculous last night! managed to not do anything, but I took a lot of will power. thanks for the support everyone. really needed it.

    had a rough night. kept waking up with the same issue and guess what's still going strong this morning? but I don't much feel like PMOing anymore, but it looks like this boner's to go.

    Thank you again to everyone who messaged me/posted on here. it's really nice to know that you can get support here from people who do care.
     
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  10. Apr 15, 2016 #10
    Coruba67

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    Hear what you are saying there!! That time of day is my worst for triggering. Am pretty new to this, though so far I have just been literally removing myself and kind of just feeling my brain... feeling how it conflicts with itself then deciding that its something I can beat. All the justification in your head, the boner, the images going on in your mind... really sucks, but you can do it!! Its just your mind playing tricks on you....
     
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  11. Apr 15, 2016 #11
    BennyLow78

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    TO FUTURE STRUGGERLS!!!!

    If last night is anything to go off, this thing is going to be tough. Probably tougher than you originally thought. And even though it's going to be awkward when getting the bus today (read previous comment), I feel great! It was difficult to do but if you can get past the initial urge, by any means possible, I can guarantee that you'll fell awesome the following day.

    I highly recommend that talking to someone when you get in that state, it thoroughly helped to have some instant aid, and it was a real comfort to know I wasn’t the only one who had ever had that weird spike in urges.

    If anyone ever is struggling again, message me on here and I will try to help as much as I can.

    Keep fighting ladies and gentlemen! We all can do this!
     
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  12. Apr 15, 2016 #12
    Coruba67

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    You got an AP yet?
     
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  13. Apr 15, 2016 #13
    Awakening123

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    I strongly agree with this. I was in same position where I couldn't sleep and kept having porn flashbacks but didn't give in for 2 days. It was very clam after that storm.
     
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  14. Apr 15, 2016 #14
    BennyLow78

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    cheers, Awakening123 (don't know how to quote)
    I just hope people who are on the point of relapse find this and think it's useful.
     
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  15. Apr 15, 2016 #15
    hungarianpmowarrior

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    don't give up just focus on being clean!!!
    and every time you wat to fap just watch funny things like this
     
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  16. Apr 15, 2016 #16
    Coruba67

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    Oh dude... thats kinda gross! Shoulda stopped watching after the first fart when it was still a little funny!
     
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  17. Apr 15, 2016 #17
    hungarianpmowarrior

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    sooryy
     
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