Hi guys , I don’t know why I can’t ask a question. I am a 20 years old , I’maddicted on porn 10 years ago and masturbation 8 years ago . I was shy , bored , weak , lazy , have no vision with my life so I tried to quit it . I’m trying to quit it since I was 15 but I relapse and relapse but I reached 30 days and 49 days without porn and wow that’s amazing but unfortunately I relapse again . Allah was always with me and I never gave up I’m in a good college and having good alot friends but I’ do it . My hair fall , my sight became bad , I live a day good and another bad . I’m tired with it and I’m in my first day now . I read that it need 90 days to heal from porn but as I said I’m trying to quit it 5 years ago so I do it only 4 times a month and I’m not that addicted but I relapse always .. so my birthday after 14 days and I’m in my first one . I wanted to make my 21 birthday something bigger and well but I relapse . I was thinking about making my BD a new life 2 months ago but I relapse . So if I quit it for 14 days , will I be able to start a new life from my birthdays ? Or it’s a short period to recover ? Also what should I do to speed up my recovery time so I can heal in 14 days ? I’m working out and eating well . But I’m now in finL exam so I need to study too much . So guys what should I do ? Also my hair and my sight ‘ll gonna be better if I quit it ?
aye bro, i feel you man, It's really tough at a situation like this. I'm on my day one back after relapsing, and I too just like you had an hair problem where in a couple places, my hair was gone and missing and I was so ashamed of myself, but thank God I could hide it with my other hair. but I always felt insecure and sometimes I even wondered If God was there, but he was always there, after several months, my hair started to grow back and those gaps started to close, and it is still healing. it took a lot of faith and praying, but you see now I started to understand as the healing process takes it's place, why God allowed me through that path. so here what I'll tell you, even though the situation you're in right now may seem like chaos, trust God and pray for him to give you strength, and the endurace to get through. because this is all to make you stronger, it was no mistake you came to the site and signed up to stop porn, don't give up bro. recovery does take time, and it requires a whole lot of will to say no to something your body craves, but this pain you go through will one day make you into a better person than you ever were. your not alone going through this man, were all together to go kick this addiction in the ass. Babe Ruth said this quote once, "Don't let the fear of striking out keep you from coming to the plate." if you quit for 14 days, you left the addiction, but the addiction hasn't left you. after those 14 days, this is where many people fail, do Not lose your Focus. keep always on the alert, because it might lurk up on you anytime, continue to fight, and if you do fail, get back up and fight, don't let it have, it's a war we have with our inner lustfull selves, and it's up to each and every one of us to tame it.
