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Help!!!!!!!! I am a Sissy addicted to everyrhing

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by Sackstor, Jan 18, 2019.

  1. Sackstor

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    Yes I am looking into it. Thank you. Whty are you here??
     
  2. Coolyorky

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    Regardless what P anyone has been watching you need to stop it ASAP.

    Block adult websites on all devices
    Start exercising
    Improve your diet, vitamins etc
    Stay away from negative things like the news (sensationalised headlines etc)
    Start reading, again positive, educational, interesting things
    Listen to good music/positive
    Delete all social media
    Dont touch your pecker apart from washing or taking a piss. Seriously
    Throw away anything that is triggering.
    Do all of this to prove to yourself you’re serious. A lot of people talk a good game but dont back it up.

    This is practical advice to help brother!

    Best of luck
     
  3. Sackstor

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    Sorry. My fat fingers dont type so well. I appreciate all your comme,ts ..i don't and wont say anything mean. I am positive and luke you want to change..
     
  4. Sackstor

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    sorry if i made you feel like a was being an asshole
     
  5. Lauren75

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    No worries. Sorry if I was asking too many questions. I was curious whether your 'path' was similar to mine.
    What you said about starting to focus on the woman's pleasure rang very true for me too, and I was wondering if all P is a trap in that way. Since men are usually off camera, those of us who are more empathetic have nothing to related to except the woman. So even vanilla P pulls us into feeling like the woman,because that's all there really is.

    Its probably a bigger conversation for a different forum, but it feels like all P might be kinda dangerous in that way (as well as all the other ways).

    I appreciate you sharing, and hopefully knowing that there's people on here who are behind you, believe in you and think you're doing the right thing by quitting helps. You can do this. :)
     
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  6. Sackstor

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    If i could give u a hug I would. My sissy fantasies are strong. I never thought about a sex change. I just enjoy dressing and playing the role of a submissive woman that has to do any the male says. I am a fairly big athletic guy as well. 5'11 190 lbs. big shoulders strong body. I am constantly wondering why I enjoy this cross dressing and role playing. When I truly act out and go to an adult store, I am acting out many of the scenes that I have watched. I use poppers as well that really let you go deep. I also watch edging /gooning videos which play into the getting stones and stupid mindless thing add poppers and boy do things happen. this is day 5 for me and I feel more patient with my wife(who just found my NoFap articles I printed out to read). I explained to her that PMO makes me feel good, in all times of being down. She didnt freak out or anything. I told her that I haven't watched any P for a few days anad am trying to not watch any. Having kids , other issues pop up that seem to take over her concerns. I do enjoy dressing (completely with wig , lipstick suspenders heels) I am not sure and I am curious why I like to dress like a slut and act out.

    I do know that once kids came into the picture sex changed for us. I used P more and more. I am pretty desensitized from it. When acting out, I dont get completely hard so when playing, other guys do not get to pleasure me. I still prefer watching woman especially big boobs. I enjoy Oversized dildos as well. I have trained my ass using many big , big toys. I think this stemmed from when I was a very young child, I needed to go to the doctors to get my anus stretched out.(so my mom told me). I had this told to me after I really got into using the over sized toys. I appreciate anything that you may say. knowing that you are going through something similar is helpful. Anything that I may do for you , just ask.

    Thx
     
  7. Estel

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    Typo...
    I meant ***I do think it is NOT only the fault of porn. ***

    In the sense that there is something I like about it. But in my case I'm sure it is largely due to porn.

    Anyway for the psychologist or sexologist, there is no better way to find one. Eater you have a reference of someone, which you don't want since it is delicate matter, or you look onlineand try one. Depending on your area, there should be a website of the professional order of the profession. You can verify their permit and browse depending on your area and problematic, if you want a guy or a girl, ... Go with your guts and try one. In my case I called 2-3 people, and didnt like the vibe on the phone. I then found one younger who had a blog on porn addiction which I thought was very encouraging. I've been meeting with him since. Sometimes I needed one meeting every week, sometimes 1/ in 3 weeks, sometime I didn't see him for a few months (which wasn't good at that time, but I thought it would be). You'll discuss with him what's best for you.

    It's not the magic way to stop porn. But it is a great way to feel better about it and have a concrete help on how to do it.
    Keep us informed in the next week's!
     
  8. Sackstor

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    thanks for the feedback. I do appreciate all of it !
     
  9. Sackstor

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    What did you mean , this is a troll? Thanks.. BTW day 5 no PMO :)
     
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  10. Be it a troll or not (which I get the vibe he is), there are men out there going through this.
    I think we are not capable of giving proper advice here. There's too damn many layers here. There's even the debate about having a lustful life being bad or not. The debate of why he enjoys this, when he even enjoyed wearing pantyhose as a kid, when regular kids would feel so mad if forced to do anything remotely considered girly. And there are plenty of other things to debate about this thread, but we are here for porn, and all we can tell you is to quit porn, because it is proven to have plenty of downsides, as you can check on yourbrainonporn.com , research section.
    Everything else is up to you to analyze and discover.
     
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  11. Sackstor

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    My stories are 100% true. Are you saying I am a troll?
     
  12. bodybuilder21

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    Ask your wife for a handjob i think you need it.
     
  13. Estel

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    I didn't get any troll vibe. But there are probably some. In my opinion, I don't care. I am honest and I am reading and answering people partly to help myself. Cause it helps me feeling good and staying focused. I also hope some people will connect to my posts and feel the same. If people, lose time, trolling forums for porn addicts..... Wow, this is a low bottom for those who have so much free time for that..... And no respect whatsoever.
    Also, that's true that many people here have misconceptions and false debate about being sinful for having natural-human-sexual-tensions... I don't want to start religion debate, but yes, masturbation is normal. Porn is not.That is all there is.

    Well, something like 99.5% of porn is not. Some people are living well with just a bit of porn, and there is also ethical porn. But for me and many here, infinite source of sexual images is an addiction.

    @Sackstor I did believe the story and my answers were legits so, of course it is always up to you!
     
  14. B0bTh3Bu1ld3r

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    BBC? lol who would be addicted 2 that?
     
  15. He's not talking about British Broadcasting. He's talking about Big Black!
     
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  16. Sackstor

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    Its the rewiring from watching certain porn for years. Its a road that many go s own. Not by choice
     
  17. Sackstor

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    Is anyone else feeling this pulling sensation to go PMO
     
  18. Fenston999

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    No,. Resist it man, it's just temptation.
     
  19. Sackstor

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  20. Vitoriosa

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    Sackstor, a sua história é idêntica ao meu marido, a única diferença e o que nunca saiu com homens . Ele parou de ver pornografia desde o mês de setembro, muitas coisas aconteceram teve disfunção.Mais por ele não teriamos nada. Agora os pensamentos estão forte. Você pode se vestir como crossdresser, quer ter um homem fodendo ele. Os pensamentos estão vindo a todo instante. Ele também comprou dildos gigantes. Ele vestia a menina e ficava fazendo anal com esses dildos. Até que eu peguei e fui fui a respeito. Por que foi tudo por causa da pornografia. só queria saber como fazer parar com esses pensamentos, que fica induzindo o que é uma trans. Se quiserem me ajudar com isso. Obrigada a todos. Obs. Somos casados a 27 anos e temos dois filhos adultos. Mais eles não sabem. Essa batalha está nas minhas mãos de ajuda do meu retorno ao normal.
     

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