TL;DR If I keep going through friends and can't find one, then there has to be something wrong with me right? Full Version: Every time I get on a streak, I start to question if I have true friends. I'll try to explain the people in each group I think I'm more than acquaintances with: Group A (Hometown): -P was my childhood best friend. P strictly eats junk food. He admitted to me he doesn't eat vegetables or fruit. He justifies junk food by saying "I want to put on weight" because he's 130lbs at 5'8". When I suggest going to the gym with his uncle, who is a gym rat and can show him everything, he says he doesn't want to or he'll do it later but never does. Every time I visit him, we can only talk about the past because he has nothing new (been going on for about 2 years now). He sits in a dark room playing video games all day and doesn't want to get a job. -T was an altar boy with me. We are both interested in starting online businesses. When I text him about that, he responds. Any other time is unread or a BS excuse not to hang out like "I'm watching the world cup" Group B (College Suitemates): -This group doesn't include me in most of their activities and ignores me (especially in our group chat) until I call them out -D is/was my college best friend. We hung out every day last year and he helped me get through some sad times. This year, he got a GF and she's a sex addict so they bang 5 times a day. Now he ditches me to go bang, even if we're in the middle of something Conclusions: I've already ditched a different college friend group because they drink, smoke weed, and go to parties 4/7 days of the week. Clearly if I'm going through friend groups and can't find a fit, then it has to be a problem with me? And if I have to ask if they are friends, then they probably aren't, right?