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HELP: Is this Recovery, Relapse, or Both?

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by Silent Eyes, May 3, 2020.

  1. Silent Eyes

    Silent Eyes Fapstronaut

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    I was taking care of some tasks and had a thought about an old FWB from my past. One thought led to another, and I started to get an erection. It wasn’t 100%, but I was definitely feeling aroused and getting that “tingle” down there.

    A few hours later, I’m scrolling through Snapchat and I see a post from a girl-friend of mine. It was a private post and when I clicked on it, it was her in her underwear and t-shirt. Same response as earlier, but I’m wondering if it’s a relapse because it was me getting turned on by something on the screen. Or could it be recovery because she is a friend of mine and the possibility for intercourse with her is real?

    I’m hoping I didn’t just mess up and relapse. Any insight on the matter helps.

    Thanks!

    P.S: In both situations, I didn’t masturbate.
     
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  2. Free your mind

    Free your mind Fapstronaut

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    Thats a good sign for sure. If it leads to intercourse, I would say go for it. If it's just fun and leads to nowhere, avoid it.
     
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  3. Silent Eyes

    Silent Eyes Fapstronaut

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    Thanks for the reply. I’m still early in my reboot (Day 8), and I don’t want to rush and fail to perform or cheat myself. I’m going to avoid it and continue to allow myself to heal.
     
  4. Free your mind

    Free your mind Fapstronaut

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    Fair enough. Wish you luck!
     

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