Help me! Need advices!

You seem very rushed dude, don't be. It doesn't matter what you do. Just be natural as you would be in any other occasions. Go to bed early, read something before sleep. Drink a lot of milk cause it's a nice anti stresser. Also you can go to city at night for a walk just to think. Only you and your thoughts. Good luck.

 

@blunt.ever when I was 18 I started dating an overtly sexual girl as well. I was also a virgin. I was afraid of sex, deathly afraid of sex. I was taught that sex before marriage was a sin, in addition I had a brother who contracted HIV and was just diagnosed with full blown AIDS (this was back in the early 90s). This girl really wanted to have sex with me, but I refused. I ended up breaking it off with her because of my fear of sex. I repeated the same pattern with 3 other girls, until I met my first wife. To say my first wife was non-sexual would be an understatement. In the 14 years we were together I can literally count on one hand (no pun ) how many times we successfully had intercourse. At first this was a relief, I could have a girlfriend and not have to worry about sex! But after several years of dating and marriage I realized the error in my logic. Sex is something we are wired for, it should be something fun, wonderful and joyous shared between two people.

Dont let your fear get in the way of enjoying life. Will Smith said "some of the greatest things lie on the other side of fear". If you dont feel she is right then by no means allow yourself to be pressured into sex. However if you are even a little attracted to her, and she to you, then let it happen. It doesn't need to be magical, and its surely nothing to freak out about. Just dont let your fear dictate your life. That takes you to dark and lonely places.

 

I hate this "media".

 

Relax friend, if you have sex anxious and stressed how you are now, it's probably that you'll have premature ejaculation or even have a erection (ED).