You let him answer that question. That's not your headache, my heartbroken friend. Right now, you absolutely must focus on getting your thoughts in order and simply (not at all simple though, mind you) letting the emotional fluxes pass. Take a day off to think. And try get yourself a good nap, which -fortunately- is easy after crying Your immediate focus here is on yourself and yourself only. Get your head in order and then get this clear with your bf- CONVINCING YOU OTHERWISE IS HIS RESPONSIBILITY. Please. Take it easy.