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Help me to succeed.

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Rowdypowerstar, Feb 24, 2019.

  1. Rowdypowerstar

    Rowdypowerstar Fapstronaut

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    Hello everyone
    I guess you guys will be angry/disappointed at me after looking at this post. I finished 3 days challenge, but after that yesterday I did it twice, even though after 1st one I felt that it's bad .Now I have reached a mindset that nothing happens , everyone does this stuff. I want to end, my college starts from tomorrow and I have to continue my gym in a week and want to work harder this semester. Please help me ,to change my mindset and I feel like a looser now and I can't even go to college with positive mind set. What should I do ? Please help me, i am open to any ideas/help now. More over , i have urge to masturbation staying awake at night with my cell phone, which is irresistible.
     
  2. Davinblake

    Davinblake Fapstronaut

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    Hey man,
    You perfectly got the point, every one does it. This means that it isn't as bad as everyone says. A lot of succesful people fap and fapped so it's all up to you deciding that you can, and want, to go even further beyond just living in a closed cave and exploring the best rocks but trying to see the sun outside. Now i made it in to a Platone thing as if it was the meaning of life but it is not. What i can tell you is that i felt a lot better but had to work my ass of to get results, it changed my way of living and now i manage to: go to school, study, do boxing, hang out and even still have a lot of spare time; also for me (because yes, it's very subjective) it helped chilling and understanding how i have to work to get results and FINALLY made me quit videogames, which i consider as bad as porn. Fapping is done to fill the unsatisfaction of rejection, so istead of fighting it and fixing the problem you feel good. It's all about you, why do you fap? Because you don't feel good with what you do or what you are? Because it has already degenerated in something like a netflix addiction? Hope you can get to your goals, good luck man
     
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  3. WildPig13

    WildPig13 Fapstronaut

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    Working small also works! You (mostly) can't spect to quit such a strong addiction cold turkey, so you'd better start by a 3 day streak as you just did, then 7 days, then 10, the twoo weeks and so on, I haven't done it exactly like this but it might work out for you.
     
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