Help needed - escort temptation

Discussion in 'Problematic Sexual Behavior' started by g2stop, Dec 30, 2019.

  1. g2stop

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    I am tempted to see an escort tomorrow. I know I will regret it. My mind is strongly rationalising. Please put down all the reasons why I shouldn’t so I can combat my rationalisations.
     
  2. CodeTalker

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    It cost money for a start. Money that could be well spent in something else.
     
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  3. CodeTalker

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    Then it will be sex without emotion, with someone you see as a sex object and she see you like a wallet. What if she was disgusted and had to hid it ?
     
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  4. diaspar

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    Because urges go away.

    I was tempted last Sunday. I went for a nice walk instead, in an area I hadn't been to for several years even though it's nearby. Infinitely better than acting out.
     
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  5. g2stop

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    Thanks it is helping, need more negatives of paid sex to focus on
     
  6. There is always risk of disease. Not to mention your reputation.

    You could donate your time and or the money in a soup kitchen or shelter, or a homeless medical clinic. Helping other people with their problems can take your mind off your own. Most homeless adults have addiction problems too, and like us, need lots of support to recover.
     
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  7. WilBil99

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    Let’s face it, escort is a glamorized term for prostitute, hooker, street walker. We turn our nose up to giving spare change to the homeless but we freely give our riches to drug addicted daughters who fuck you and every other dirty dick with a Jefferson to spare. This could be any female you know, love, or are related to.
     
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  8. Arnuld

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    1. The person you are paying for sex may have been sexually abused or experienced another terrible trauma

    2. The person you are paying for sex may be deeply addicted to drugs.

    3. The person you are paying for sex may be the victim of human trafficking.

    4. The person you are paying for sex may have a sexually transmitted disease that you could contract that you could have for life.

    5. The person you are paying for sex may have had sex with many other men that day.
     
  9. hollyman

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    is not worthy i told you,

    not to mention the disease that can contain in risk sex like that such as Aids, HIV and other disease

    are u married ? if u arent married yet

    will you accept if ur wife told you that she liked having sex with male prostitute before ?? isnt that disgust you ? so vice versa my friend

    THINK ABOUT IT OR GO FOR A WALK IN THE PARK TO CALM THAT URGE
     
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  10. KellticJK

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    Money, money money!
    I had this issue a while back, and when i say awhile, exactly 4 weeks ago to the day. During this time I had relapsed, but was so horny I was slapping the chicken 5 times a day! In the end, I created a spreadsheet. In this spreadsheet I put the cost of a 30 min release (seeing as it's less than 30 mins, but not like you can get less time (depends where you are)), I then made a list of books, films etc etc along with the duration of time it would take me to complete them. I then rated them 1- 5 & - (minus) & + (plus) (1 being long & 5 being instant, minus being bad habit and plus being good)... During this break away from thought, my mind became logical in its decision - To be successful in any part of your life, having more good habits than bad habits allow to see yourself in a light that you radiate positive vibes rather than negative vibes.... suffice to say I have a reading list that pretty damn long, covering technical qualifications to how to rewire my brain... and the mork and mind tv series :p
     
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  11. g2stop

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    Thanks for all the input. I am now 14 days clean and plan to remain so. Urges are now much less.
     
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  12. WilBil99

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    Did you say Mork & Mindy!?! Lol that is fantastic! Trivia question: What series did Mork first appear on before getting his own show? Man I’m old lol!
     
  13. Paul69

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    Some more reasons not to give in to temptation:
    - You will feel like shit later
    - When she says she is horny and later that she's cumming she is probably lying. Wouldn't you prefer a woman saying such things to you and meaning it?
    - You could get seen entering her appartment by someone you know
     
  14. Booksandtrees

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    She could also rob you, hurt you, or murder you. Or some creep follows her to your meeting place and does both of you. Lots of crime involved with prostitutes.
     
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  15. Fifth Horseman

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    Mork was first introduced on Happy Days.
     
  16. WilBil99

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    Ding ding ding! We have a winner!!
     
  17. Fifth Horseman

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    Amazing I picked my head up from a girlie magazine long enough to watch that.
     
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  18. mana95

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    Hey what about urgers those gonna never end ? If could not find a gf is there any solution than e**?
     
  19. greenmtnboy

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    Hiring others for sex is against the law.

    I had thought when I was in the throes of the porn addiction to tell my sister I was living with; even tempted to turn myself into the authorities, but what would they do? What I was doing, ie looking at and sharing art porn is too common.

    The problem with these sex addictions is the only solution is to avoid them. There are lots of meetings for alcohol and drug abuse but a tiny fraction for sex issues. And if you don't have an overt sex addiction but just surfing the net for porn, chances are you will feel out of place in some of the sex addiction meetings.
     
  20. takingthejourney

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    You can be arrested, you can be hurt, you can be exposed. It will mess up your confidence, and hurt in finding regular women. Also a waste of money you can use that money in meeting a regular girl and it will be worth it 10x over at least with the regular girl you see a return on your investment (physically, emotionally, mentally, even if she just cooks for you) A regular girl can help you get places in life a escort is just draining you
     
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