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Help!.....Porn ruined my life...

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by sam200, May 2, 2018.

  1. sam200

    sam200 Fapstronaut

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    i have been watching porn for over 5 years now and it all started since i was 13 and now im 18 years old, i see girls as objects for sexual pleasure and not humans ... i am facing pre mature ejaculation , i lost my gf and i decided to stop porn and hopefully ill get support from someone here
    please help!
     
  2. Septimus

    Septimus Fapstronaut

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    Welcome! I'm glad you're here. There are a lot of people here who are eager to help, especially many your own age. Keep coming back!
     
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  3. Orion_35

    Orion_35 Fapstronaut

    Porn is largely fake:
    Most if not all of the actors in porn do it because they believe that is the only thing they can do to sustain themselves. it can be said that they are being raped by capitalism on a daily basis, to me that is very sad.
    Porn is a business, actors have to force themselves to do what the directors tells them and the film cuts out the parts where they prematurely ejaculate, fake orgasm in the wrong moment and so on, its a performance art that stems from financial desperation and negative self image.
    Porn is out of sync with itself because the people in it wouldn't have the natural inclination to do or act the way they do and typically they can barely get aroused by it if at all, since they have to act regardless of turn offs etc.
    By watching that you'd end up emulating that very same lack of sync. it is part of the reason that people who watch porn find it hard to get aroused.
    Porn often features instances of physical and emotional abuse as though these are some every day things that should be tolerated, and on top of it all it encourages people to mutilate themselves in order to fit some absurd notions about bodily proportions that I personally find disgusting.(seriously, try to watch that kind of medical operation sometimes).
    And I'm sure there are more rational reasons against porn in the resources.

    If porn works for some people good for them, I'm not here to tell them its evil but the above made me stop watching porn.
     
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  4. sam200

    sam200 Fapstronaut

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    thanks guys i hope that my decision would last i just need someone to help
     

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