Help, Tricky Situation | Is this a relapse?

legendaryme

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So, a quick post before I go to sleep. So far I've gone 4+ days w/o looking at porn. However, I have a handful of women that I use to bang out on the regular back in Alabama where I was attending undergraduate school. (Dec. 2016 was that last time I had sex with them b/c I graduated and moved away, except one of them was July 2017. She joined me on my roadtrip up to NYC)

I'm currently in NYC for law school and these women send me pics/vids of them nude and whenever we facetime they dance and strip nude for me. I masturbate to the facetime "sex" but not to the vids/pics they send me.


As we speak, I just literally finished doing this. -__-

Should I count this as a relapse and tell these women to stop sending me pics/vids and to discontinue facetime "sex"?


Thanks in advance.
 
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So, a quick post before I go to sleep. So far I've gone 4+ days w/o looking at porn. However, I have a handful of women that I use to bang out on the regular back in Alabama where I was attending undergraduate school. (Dec. 2016 was that last time I had sex with them b/c I graduated and moved away, except one of them was July 2017. She joined me on my roadtrip up to NYC)

I'm currently in NYC for law school and these women send me pics/vids of them nude and whenever we facetime they dance and strip nude for me. I masturbate to the facetime "sex" but not to the vids/pics they send me.


As we speak, I just literally finished doing this. -__-

Should I count this as a relapse and tell these women to stop sending me pics/vids and to discontinue facetime "sex"?


Thanks in advance.
I think this does count as a relapse, because It's still very similar content, except that here, they send you it, but porn you find yourself, but still you know... pretty much the same thing in my opinion
 
So, a quick post before I go to sleep. So far I've gone 4+ days w/o looking at porn. However, I have a handful of women that I use to bang out on the regular back in Alabama where I was attending undergraduate school. (Dec. 2016 was that last time I had sex with them b/c I graduated and moved away, except one of them was July 2017. She joined me on my roadtrip up to NYC)

I'm currently in NYC for law school and these women send me pics/vids of them nude and whenever we facetime they dance and strip nude for me. I masturbate to the facetime "sex" but not to the vids/pics they send me.


As we speak, I just literally finished doing this. -__-

Should I count this as a relapse and tell these women to stop sending me pics/vids and to discontinue facetime "sex"?


Thanks in advance.
Depends if your goal is kicking porn addiction or sex addiction. if p addiction not, if sex addiction yes.
 
You relapsed/ thread

There is no doubt about it. You gave in a little finger, and now it takes your entire hand... I've been there, the fact that you masturbated made it relapse. Your counter says masturbation, does it?;)
 
You relapsed/ thread

There is no doubt about it. You gave in a little finger, and now it takes your entire hand... I've been there, the fact that you masturbated made it relapse. Your counter says masturbation, does it?;)

You bastard ;). Thanks for calling me out.
 
Damn, so it's looking like I have to tell these chicks to stop. Or does receiving and watching but not masturbating prevent it from being a relapse?

B/c a might be able to do that. Or should I not even set myself up like that?

Damn, I'm answering my own questions. Haha any feedback though helps.
 
I think this does count as a relapse, because It's still very similar content, except that here, they send you it, but porn you find yourself, but still you know... pretty much the same thing in my opinion

I'm in agreement here. Whether it's produced by the porn industry or a homemade sex tape/video call (after all, remember there is an Amateur section on porn sites ;)) then it should be classified as porn. To me, any type of media that are specifically made to be sexually satisfying is a type of porn. I'd even consider phone sex to be P.

So yea, I'd consider this to be a relapse.
 
While you certainly sound like a lucky guy, yeah, this is a relapse. It's a sexual, interactive form of media you're masturbating to and that's exactly like porn, especially certain types of porn.

Allowing yourself to watch it when in the middle of a streak can be cause for relapse. I'm afraid if you want to get the most out of NoFap, you're going to have to say goodbye to all of them.
 
Damn, so it's looking like I have to tell these chicks to stop. Or does receiving and watching but not masturbating prevent it from being a relapse?

B/c a might be able to do that. Or should I not even set myself up like that?

Damn, I'm answering my own questions. Haha any feedback though helps.

Still a relapse even if you don't masturbate as P = porn, whether you jack off to it or not.
 
While you certainly sound like a lucky guy, yeah, this is a relapse. It's a sexual, interactive form of media you're masturbating to and that's exactly like porn, especially certain types of porn.

Allowing yourself to watch it when in the middle of a streak can be cause for relapse. I'm afraid if you want to get the most out of NoFap, you're going to have to say goodbye to all of them.
You're right.
 
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