Hey everyone, Im a 22 yo male and Ill be turning 23 in a few months. I have been PMOing to porn for probably 6 years, sometimes multiple times per day. For about the past year I did some nofap streaks, some as long as a month. That's because I realized that something was wrong. I was suspicious that I had ED. When I would PMO I would only get fully hard right before I was about to cum. And I hadn't even tried to masturbate without porn in years, but when I did try it took a lot of effort and constant stimulation to get hard enough to finish. Well I of course ended up relapsing from those streaks and using porn again. I am doing thing a little differently now. I'm currently 2 days from a 4-week streak. But this time I'm not just abstaining from PMO but I'm also dating real women. I've never been in a relationship, and never even had a kiss. I was never in situations with girls where I could experience arousal from real life. But since I've been on this streak and been dating I had my first kiss last week. And tonight I had a date with another girl and it went pretty far. We made out a lot and I fingered her. It was great that I was doing things with a real girl, but I wasn't getting hard. There were a few brief moments when I would get a semi but then it would disappear and there would be nothing. She kept trying to grab it and was begging for oral but I had to stop her because I couldn't get hard. There are a couple of takeaways from this and a few reasons why I'm really concerned. Firstly, wanting to PMO and sexual arousal are COMLETELY different things. I was finally doing everything short of sex with a real girl and I wasn't getting aroused, physically or emotionally. My mind is so programmed to associate porn with sex that my wiring is all screwed up. This is made worse by the fact that I've never been intimate with a girl so that correct wiring never developed in me, I was using porn for so long, and I learned how to masturbate incorrectly (I masturbated prone and flaccid, so that I had to wait for my erections to fade before I could cum. I did this exclusively for the first year or so, basically programming my mind that I cant be hard to ejaculate. When finally learned how to masturbate correctly it took me a while to be able to maintain an erection. Then a few years later I started abusing porn). So I feel like the cards are stacked against me here. I've programmed my mind with all the wrong habits to create the perfect storm for ED. Honestly any advice or help would be greatly appreciated. Ways to recover faster etc. Honestly girls like me and I'm apparently very attractive, but inside I feel completely inadequate.