Help with girl I can't get over

Discussion in 'Problematic Sexual Behavior' started by GA93JDeereboy, Jul 19, 2018.

  1. WilBil99

    WilBil99 Fapstronaut

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    Sometimes you need to remove the emotion and look at the situation from others perspectives. Would someone who even cared for , never mind had only friendship intentions, only want your company when they need something? What if you were in distress or hurt? She wouldn’t be there for you buddy, she’s proven that right? Now if you won the Lottery, her pants would be at her knees and she’d be answering her door in a fucking heartbeat. Unrequited feelings suck and hurt but they are also taken advantage of. You deserve better than she will give unless there is something in it for you.
     
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  2. Ogikubo

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    I usually despise calling girls or women bad names but she is absolutely awful. Never contact her again. Never! For the rest of your life!
     
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  3. GA93JDeereboy

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    Guys I had reread what I wrote a while ago, it did bring back memories, and sadly a lot was drama. Some sex, and it was ok, but still a little dirty and unsafe sex.
    I guess I’m just really nice???
    I just want to be her friend is all, I’m not wanting to get laid, well the bad side of me would but I wouldn’t let it happen if I was offered especially after all this.
    A friend of mine sent her a Facebook message for me as I’m not on Facebook. Nothing came back, I did write her a letter as well earlier this year and have emailed her as well like on her birthday.
    Just no reply anywhere, not a no I’m not interested, not a no I don’t want to see you or anything!

    the last message I sent her was partly on me. This was before we separated Ok.


    She isn’t all the bad one ok I did some wrong as well. Partly I was giving her money and she did know I had seen escorts bc I told her. Then I texted her guy friendly. I wouldn’t say boyfriend but something she was with that I was done with her and then she said she hated me.

    I know this may be a little hard to understand but yes I said something not so pleasant but just wanted to be friends again. Ahhh
     
  4. GA93JDeereboy

    GA93JDeereboy Fapstronaut

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    Maybe I’ll give it more time b4 I reach out again?

    But then say it goes to hell again then I finally know it was all no good?



    what am I doing, I said I was done over a year ago did good for a few months and been contacting her since every now and then???????

    Am I pathetic or what is wrong with me?
    I still care a lot about her but maybe she doesn’t care anything about me?
     
  5. Ogikubo

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    If your best friend was in the same situation, what would you advise him? Keep trying? Hang in there? Or run as fast as possible away from her?
    I think you know which answer is the best.
    She reminds me of my sister. My sister is a terrible, heartless person. She lies and she steals. She drinks too much and only cares about herself. Her husband is a total loser.
    Buddy, wake up. You are heading into a life of hell.
     
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  6. Rick_Sanchez

    Rick_Sanchez Fapstronaut

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    listed to Ogikubo and your rational self. You know better than this
     
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  7. Napav

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    Relax. Take a deep breath. Leave her and move on.
    Sorry, I think you feel that you want her, because you find her attractive.
    Sorry, but it's hard truth.
     
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