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Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by Robbie96, Apr 5, 2020.

  1. Robbie96

    Robbie96 Fapstronaut

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    Hey guys! I’m 23 and I have bad ED problems usually worlds better with medication (Vigra) but I’m really concerned with myself why I can’t cum during sex! It’s so annoying and I think I have not much sensitivity down there, I’m really scared I can never enjoy sex or even cum, I have today stopped watching porn and I believe I may have the death grip syndrome.

    As I have said the sensitivity and not being to finish during sex is really my main concern.

    Have visited doctor after doctor and a urologist and nothing major has come out out to them.

    Someone please help me!
     
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  2. Rox7

    Rox7 Fapstronaut

    I also have death grip, as well as severe ED. I can't really speak to sensitivity during sex since it's been years since I've been with anyone, but I would say it's pretty likely you've become accustomed to using your hand and being overstimulated by porn. As far as I know, using the hand can cause one to respond only to that physical sensation, which can't be replicated during sex. Plus, depending on how bad your porn habit has been, you've probably become neurologically desensitized to sex to some extent. I am nowhere near reversing it, but it can apparently be reversed by abstaining from pornography and ideally any sexual activity for at least 90 days.
     
  3. PIEDSufferer

    PIEDSufferer Fapstronaut

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    Inability to ejaculate during sex is pretty common, actually. If you don’t appear to have any medical conditions, it’s likely psychological. It falls into the same category as performance anxiety. It may have began with desensitization that prevented you from cumming, and the thought of that experience is causing excessive frustration during sex. If you feel frustrated, that only makes things worse. Have you explored karezza sex? I never have. But the idea is to remove the goal of orgasm from sex. It supposedly becomes more enjoyable when the goal is simply to enjoy the moment. Enjoy the sensations of each other, rather than just forceful motions to induce orgasm. I’ve heard that if you do it this way, the eventual orgasm is inevitable. And you may not even realize until it happens.
     
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  4. BertrandR

    BertrandR Fapstronaut

    I experienced the same thing. I noticed that if I masturbate with porn, gradually my sensitivity decrease, the consequence is that it becomes every time harder for me to have an erection, and I find difficult to ejaculate. in the other hand, I noticed that not masturbating for a long time, and having constantly sex, solve gradually, in time, this situation (some months).
     

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