I suffer from PIED. It's slowly getting better, to the point where I was able to sleep with a girl for a minute. You can't really count that, but from where I've come from it was a big step. However I have taken a couple steps back, and have just recently got back on track. However I now like the girl, but am too nervous to try to sleep with her again, especially if it ends up being as short as before (if it would even work at all). I know the girl likes me, but I can't satisfy her needs and shes confused why. I don't feel comfortable telling anyone close to me about this issue. Now there is a new guy in the picture, and even though I know she would rather me, he is not suffering from my issues. I fear I am going to lose this girl. What do I do? I really have no idea. I know there is no way to speed up rebooting. But this is weighing on me really really badly.