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Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by PMS, May 15, 2019.

  1. PMS

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    Hey guys. I was browsing the subreddit for a while and decided that this would be a good place to remain focused on my life without porn. I have struggled with addiction most of my life. Originally with video-games and then with drugs. I have been clean from drugs for 1,5 years now which is wonderful. But I never considered my porn-watching an addiction until recently.

    I have been watching porn since I was about 10 or 11 years old. I have never really struggled with maintaining my relationships while still watching porn until recently which is why I decided to quit. I don't think it will be to hard for me to stay away as I mostly just do it because I'm bored.

    Anyhow, nice to be here and see you all trying so hard to better yourself. I certainly know the struggle!

    PMS
     
  2. hitnmis

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    Good for you Welcome!
    Stay Strong
     
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  3. PMS

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    Thanks mate
     
  4. hitnmis

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    Your welcome, hows it going today?
     
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    Today has been alright. I have been struggling to get to the gym but finally got there today which is nice. How are you doing yourself?
    Thanks for the information my friend. I will definitely try to browse a bit and find my way to people with experiences that I can identify with. Hope you're doing well mate!

    Just checked the glossary, so many concepts I didn't know that I feel apply to me or have in the past. Really good stuff, thanks.
     
  7. Hey @PMS,

    It's good that you're here, and are trying to abstain from porn. While it might not feel like it has that negative of an effect on you, you might be surprised to find that it really was effecting you more than you thought. That's what happened with me on my first streak. It made a huge difference in a lot of ways, it's almost difficult to describe.

    Best of luck to you, and welcome to the community!
     
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  8. Welcome! Read the Success Stories forum.
     
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  9. hitnmis

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    Relationship troubles on my mind but feeling great about not having to see all the terrible porn on my web browser history.
    So pretty damn good Ill suck it up eventually move on and keep going up on my counter.
    I think ill reward myself when i hit 30 day not with porn or masturbation but maybe a nice dinner, movie.
    Good for you going to the gym just try not to stare, i know ive been guilty.
    Peace, have a good one
     
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  10. PMS

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    Heya Bryan. I am 100% aware that it is super bad for me and negative in every way. What I was trying to convey in the OP is that I don't think it's hard for me to stay away from. My PMO counter is actually just for masturbation which I am trying to stay away from as my brain doesn't react well to the stimulation of that kind on the regular. But I am certainly realizing as of late that it was affecting me a whole lot more than I thought. Nice to see you my friend, hope all is well.
    Thanks Ernest, I certainly will check that out. Is that a particularly good section?
    That sucks man, sorry you're in that spot right now. I used to be very sensitive to rejection or relationship problems of any kind. But I have since realized that I can just try my hardest to get a new relationship going that will probably be better than the last. I'm not really sure how I managed to realize that but somehow I did. But when I get rejected by someone I really love the next time maybe I won't be so independent minded, we'll see.
    Haha. Yeah you're right that is really hard. I do go out of my way not to stare at women though, I know a lot of them feel uncomfortable at the gym because of that.
     
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  11. People who have done it have something to teach me...
     
  12. PMS

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    Who have successfully done what exactly? Stayed away from porn for a long time? But I see your point. I will check it out.
     
  13. Always be positive

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