heterosexual with a bj fantasy

Interesting. I, too, have in the past struggled with fantasies of giving a BJ . . . either to a guy with a larger penis (submission fantasy, to the genitals, not the man), to someone who's been pushing me around (submission fantasy again, as a way to eroticize / get pleasure out of an otherwise painful experience) or . . . someone like me - a virgin, an incel, a compulsive masturbator. Why is this? I can think of two explanations:

1. Perhaps such a guy is perceived as less likely to have an STD.
2. Or some sort of self love. If I could suck myself off (not possible, I'm way too short for that) then I probably would do that all the time, same as masturbation . . . a way to get off without having to deal with another person.

 

Pretty sure this is why we said having a jerk off buddy would be a bad thing if you wanted to quit porn or masturbation. because it leads to things like this.

Don't get me wrong. If you want to explore fantasies and men and whatnot - do it while you're 18 and not married. People who know who they are sexually and mentally, and for you, now if better than later. But if you want to remove porn and masturbation, this ain't the way./

 

We don't actually have to do things when we watch porn, a lot of fantasies in real life might be gross or unpleasant or hard to do but with porn it's not a problem. Eacalation doesn't care about reality and this is why it is so confusing. Removing influence of porn helps to understand what are our real desires and what is just fantasy.

 

It's just your mind playing tricks on you, don't listen to it.

 

I'm not sure you're straight man. Look at te facts: this is really really really gay. You might start accepting you're homosexual and live you're life at it's best.

 

This is so incredibly specific that I find it hard to believe it isnt influenced by porn. Most porn that men watch, even vanilla porn (with the obvious exception of lesbians) feature the man, specifically his penis, so prominently that its very possible for crossed wires to occur in the brain and for you to start associating another mans penis with your own arousal. When you watch porn you are supposed to imagine yourself as the man, but the way scenes are shot can cause the opposite. Doesn't mean you actually are anything other than straight.

 

Definitely it is. My most specific fantasies were recreating scenes from porn.

 

What made you realise you truly were bisexual and not just influenced by porn, if you dont mind me asking?

 

I'm a straight male (0-1 on Kinsey scale) but sexually submissive. This means I sometimes like dicks but not guys. Hair and male body features turn me off in general and I don't think I've ever been physically attracted to a man. Thus, futa or passing trans women. Its nbd, you do you man.

 

Yeah I've done hours of research and writing on the meme in my signature. I'm aware of the original format but I just happen to prefer the newer versions, plus I don't like GTA.

Am I required to make my own meems, or only use the original versions? Ya dont make sense lad

 

Yeah sorry I couldn't tell what your tone was. It's all good.

 

Ok lets not get carried away here. Can we put some trigger warnings at least?