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Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Nathan Spaceless, May 26, 2018.

  1. Nathan Spaceless

    Nathan Spaceless New Fapstronaut

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    my pseudonym is Nathan but you can call me nate or space or really whatever. I'm 17 as of a few days ago and I've used P for much of my life (probably since i was 8-9?) due to some unfortunate things that happened a long time ago. I don't know if i'd consider myself to be addicted, but over time my habit has gradually gotten much worse over time and in recent months I've had to come to grips with the fact that this is incredibly unhealthy. I've struggled with bipolar depression and anxiety for much of the last 3 years as well which has definitely affected my p0rn usage and pmo habits :( My relationship with my own sexuality in my formative years has been deeply damaged and I've decided that it's time to turn it around.

    A little about me, just for fun: I'm an artist; I play viola, i draw and i'm starting to get a little better at painting. I also like to dabble in writing/roleplay (non sexual, mostly because all of my rp partners haven't wanted to, which is fine.) I really like emo music-- call me a cringy edgelord but it's just my thing and I enjoy it :3

    I'm planning to start rebooting pretty much immediately, so heres to May 25, the day that marks the beginning of my recovery process. it won't be easy but I know it needs to change however hard it is.

    -Nathan Spaceless
    (P.S: I have no idea what my user means haha)
     
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  2. Hi. Welcome to forum!

    Make sure you crate a personal journal thread in Reboot Logs section and blog there on a regular basis. As well as just generally be active participant in various forum discussions. I recommend this to everybody new here because it's the major thing that helped me when I was first starting. Just lurking on forums, reading and learning is great. But it usually is so much more powerful to engage. It helps to keep us motivated and accountable when we are active part of community. And keeps this in front of our minds so we don't forget about importance of it and slip away in our old habits. Sharing is also therapeutic. This is a major reason why AA meetings work so good. But that was developed before internet era. These days we can get most of the same benefits online through communities like this. So don't underestimate the power of active participation.

    I would also like to suggest you to look into mindfulness meditation. It has helped me personally tremendously to learn how to deal with urges. It takes a while to get good at it and notice results, so you need to be consistent with it, but once you do it's very powerful. It has been used by sages for thousands of years to deal with various issues of the mind. And in recent decades the science is also catching up to what ancient sages have know for centuries. Meditation these days are widely used as very effective tool by psychologists for treating addiction and by neurologists for supporting recovery of the brain. It is a great exercise for the brain the same way as jogging is great exercise for the body. Check out this Ted talk, it gives a good idea of what's it about when it comes to philosophy. As far as practical side of it there is this awesome smartphone app called Headspace for guided meditations to get you started.

    Wish you lot's of strength and success in your reboot journey!
     
  3. Septimus

    Septimus Fapstronaut

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    Welcome Nathan, I'm glad you're here. I hope you keep coming back.
     

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